Ever since I blogged about regaining your virginity with the virginity kit, I have received tons and tons of e-mails from people asking me for the deets. You can read that post here. I just received another e-mail from a reader who said that she had sex with her boyfriend and now wants the virginity kit to fix her hymen, and she wants me to help. I am not affiliated with the hymen people, and I don’t know how legitimate they are either, so regain your virginity at your own risk.
While it’s amusing that women want to regain their virginity not for themselves, but for men, it also goes further to tell us the kind of double standard we are facing. How many times do you hear of any from whatever generation or location saying he wants to regain his virginity in order to look good for a woman?
On the subject of sex, men, and women, I am of the opinion that what is good for the goose is good for the gander, but I do not say this to condone promiscuity in any shape or form. It’s not that I want women to be able to sleep with 100 men at the same time just like men sleep with 100 women at the same time, but that I want men to be judged the way women are and vice versa. Why should a woman feel inclined to regain her virginity because of a man?
Every man has a right to decide what kind of woman he wants. If he wants a virgin as his woman, then he has that right, but one must wonder if he himself is a virgin? As far as I know, a man who isn’t a virgin and wants a virgin for a wife is like a woman who doesn’t own a bike but wants a man who owns a private jet. This is not at all to imply that a virgin woman is worth more than a non virgin woman or that a man who owns a private jet is worth more than one who doesn’t. But whatever it is that you are asking for – in whatever ramification – you should be able to give it, too.
Back to the topic: I am not a virginity distributor, and if I have anything to do with it, I’d tell you to stop looking for a virginity kit to regain your virginity. It cannot be regained. But if you insist on regaining your virginity, then go right ahead, but at the very least, know that I cannot help you acquire this kit.