I watched this video for the first time about two years ago. I had forgotten about it until I came across it again. It's about a woman who is still waiting for her man. I'm sure some of you have watched it. If you have, that's okay. But for those who haven't watched it, or who have watched it and forgotten the message, please enjoy it again. It's a poem by Janette ...ikz, and it's called, I will wait ... for you. Read More
How To Know He’s A Player

I stumbled upon an article the other day, and I now cannot remember where. But the article listed a bunch of ways that you know he's a player. Some of them were pretty cut and dry, but there was one that stood out to me. It's definitely how to know he's a player. It's all in the phone. One way - according to this article - to know that he's a player is by watching the way he keeps his phone. Face up? Or face down? Face Up: This is the way everyone leaves their phone because naturally, we Read More
Dear Vera, Where Are The Nigerian Men In Maryland?

This one is a short and simple question. Though the reader is asking specifically about Nigerian men in Maryland, please answer the question generally (if you live outside Maryland) because I think Nigerian men are the same anyway for the most part. As usual, my response is below the question. "Dear Vera, I would like to ask you this - I am single and looking, so where are the Nigerian men in Maryland?" Dear Reader, Your question is neither new nor unusual. I am of the opinion that you Read More
Dear Vera: Should I File For Him?
I tweeted yesterday that I received a Dear-Vera kind of letter, which I think is my first one on this blog - kind of. She's a reader of this blog, so I'm hoping we can help her by telling her what we genuinely think. My thoughts are below the mail. Hi Vera, first of all, I love your blog and I have been following you from your days on NVS. Although I have never called in, I have never missed your show. I know you don’t usually do this dear Vera kind of mails on your blog, but your last show Read More
Hol’ Up! Ryan Seacrest & Julianne Hough Are No Longer Together?
No way!! I know what you must be thinking: Oh, Vera, I didn't know you liked them that much. Well, I don't. I mean, I do. More like, I'm indifferent. I'm happy when I see them together because celebrity relationships are shorter than Keek videos. But these two, they've been together for over three years. That's good. They cited hectic schedules as their reason for break up (sure). But there are other reports of why they broke up. Some say she was too young (24) and she partied a lot. Some Read More
