Recklessly authentic.
I mean, what is the FIRST thing that attracts you to a man? I completely believe that the first thing you know/notice about a person is what he or she looks like. Just by looking at this person, you know already if you like what you see or not. Does he have nice eyes? Do you love the way he smiles? Maybe his complexion? Or his hair? These are all things that I believe you'd notice - and possibly like - about a man first. But it's the opposite for me. My friend, Uju and I have had this Read More
Well, have I got the place for you! Growing up in Nigeria, I knew about Sugar Daddies, of course. My general understanding was that a Sugar Daddy was an older, wealthy man who dated a young girl and spent a lot of money on her (and had sex with her, too). But I never really thought of the girls as Sugar Babies. The term, Sugar Daddy always had a negative connotation to it. But this is 2013. Now, there are websites like Ashley Madison for a potential adulterer to go and find himself a Read More
A year ago, I put up a post about the top 12 reasons why Igbos and Yorubas should not marry. One year later, the post is still getting comments from all kinds of people. Some people get the sarcasm, some people laugh, some other get angry, and some people just give me whatever insult they think is appropriate. Read and enjoy. Original post (and entertaining comments) here. ____________________________________________________________________________________ Whether you are aware Read More
There's a saying that you attract what you want or what you are or something like that. So I'm starting to think that this is the reason why I attract the most interesting people. Let me tell you about Kemi (not her real name). She has a tall, handsome husband and three very good looking kids - all below six years old. Recently, I hung out with Kemi and her husband was not home. When I asked about him, she told me he was ill and in the hospital. I expressed my sympathy, but I didn't ask what Read More
I first told you about a sure, no-fail way of how to know he's a player. By the way, that post sparked a debate at home as one of my beereeful readers commented and said that by virtue of Igwe putting his phone down, he's definitely a player. Igwe in turn accused me of being a player, too because I also (allegedly) put my phone down (when it's not night). I still have no idea what he was talking about. I think it was that thing men do when they turn things around and try to make you feel like Read More
