I still cannot believe I am about to tell you this story. What has gotten into me? I seem to have lost my inhibitions. Could it be the can of coke I just downed? Anyway, Mr. T was my first. Before him, I had never done it with anyone else. Of course, I always thought about it; always wondered when I would be bold enough to make that move, always wondered how, where, when, and with whom. I did not consciously decide that Mr. T would be my first though; it just happened unexpectedly. One of those moments, I guess.
I cannot really remember the exact date (which is weird cause gals usually remember such things), but I know it was sometime in April or May of 2005. Mr. T and I had been hanging out a lot, not quite dating yet (at least not to my knowledge). We spent a lotta time in Uju’s house; we had a ritual of hanging out every Friday night, and some nights, we slept in Uju’s house (that was our hangout spot). There was nothing going on between us though – no pecking, kissing, or anything more than that even. The most we did was hug. Until the morning it happened.
At the risk of making his head swell, I would say he was a very patient guy. He never pushed for anything. Once I said no, he let it go. But that morning was different – not because he asked for anything, but because I willingly gave it to him, and he was pleasantly surprised. I had woken up that Saturday morning in Uju’s house as usual. I brushed my teeth with the toothbrush I permanently kept @ Uju’s house while Mr. was still sleeping. After brushing my teeth, I woke him up and asked him to meet me in the bathroom. And that was where it happened…
…I gave him my toothbrush!! The moment was surreal, almost unbelieveable. I, Vera, first and only daughter of my father, I shared my toothbrush!! Can you believe this? He didn’t ask for it; I willingly gave it to him. And it was not a toothbrush I was intending to throw away o! It was a perfectly good toothbrush. Sure, I don’t use it all the time, but still, it was a perfectly good toothbrush.
Kitu Kizuri is finally out and about. Those that have received their copies had nothing but good words 2 say about it. It’s not late to subscribe, so you can also get the first issue. It’s a GREAT read, and I would recommend it to all Africans – men and women alike. And it is not expensive either, so you cannot say money is the problem. Check www.kitukizuri.com for more details, please.
I just bought Robin Thicke’s new CD, ‘The Evolution of Robin Thicke’, and I am loving it! The CD came with a free ‘Lost Without You’ ringtone, and of course, I have been enjoying it. Who wouldn’t? I have to say, I absolutely love the CD. Robin Thicke is just sooo soulful. Until I saw his picture, I was sure he was black. I love it!! Did I already say that??
Until next wednesday, have a wonderful week!
yea, am first! interesting story; looking forward to the later one.
LOLLLLLLLLL!!!! You are a clown! But seriously, sharing your toothbrush is a BIG deal o! YUCK! LOL!
As for Robin Thicke, I can listen to every song on his album. Most albums, I skip one or two or even more songs. I love the album.
Enjoy your week!
Toothbrush? Vera! Toothbrush! If I’m the one I’d rather use chewing stick than Vera’s toothbrush!
All I can say is that ur marriage to GuyHorny really got u twisted some more…
sharing your toothbrush is such a big deal… it’s a moment that defines a relationship for real…. but before then, it feels like yuck! engaging post…
Girrl, you are funny!
Sharing a toothbrush, now… i never reach that level before oohh! Maybe oneday sha but as i think about it… Ewwwh! Lol @ ur post sha!
Vear, wetin be dis!!!!!!1 my mouth abi na ear dey water for gist u come talk toothbrush!!!!!!!!! say wetin??? but its a big deal sha!!1
registering my presence,I am 8th.
Fear dan dey catch me cos I been dey think abt that other thing wey we been do,cos I know say I be the first for that one unless say u get way to seal it back o …… LOL
U r such a clown mehn !!!
Na love o!Love makes you do crazy things.
I’ll wait for the gist.
I hope it will not cost too much too order from naija. Lemme know the cost please.
I will listen to some of his songs on line before I purchase it,his CD. Have afun week,love.
CALL MY ASS ALREADY! toothbrush sharing russian-ibo girl. but wait o, does that alsoi mean that i have kissed T. cos u used it after that and i shared my fork with u one long time ago. eeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
You are a fool. A fool at the age of 2……………… is a fool for ever.
Beyond: Thanks for stopping by o! I’ll write about the other one as soon as possible.
LondonBuki: Did you just call me a clown? You better believe I’m reporting you to “our” mummy. And yea, I agree with you, Robin Thicke’s album is great!! He’s just sooooo soulful. Mmmmm. The things I would do to be his wife and have him sing those sings to/for/about me. *day dreaming*
Azuka: Stop lying to yourself jo! You know you would gladly use my toothbrush over and over again. Tell the truth and shame the devil oh, my dear.
BabZent: LOL. Speaking of Guy Horny sef, where da heck is he? This kin marriage sha; I no come understand o. I have to blog about this someday. Anyway, what do u mean by it twisted me some more? LOL. I wasn’t twisted b4 o! How u dey? Longest time…
Nyemoni: Yeah, I guess it really does define a relationship. It’s something I had never done, and I was not sure if I ever would do it, but that day, I glad did it without thinking twice. My dear toothbrush.
SisiNaija: LOL. Trust me, it’s not so bad. I used to think of it as eww too. I could never understand how people could comfortably do that, but it’s not bad @ all.
36 Inches Of Brown Legs: LOL. You had already balanced for the gist ehn? LOL. But this one na correct gist now ehn? Hehehehe
Omohemi: Sister Omohemi, thank you for showing your lovely face.
NaijaBloke: LOL. Oh, of course you were the first and only for that other one now! In fact, I cannot write about that one cause it’s too hot for these bloggers to handle. They won’t be able to handle it. How r u sha? Come, who you calling a clown? LOL
Omohemi Benson: You’ll get the gist very soon, no worries. How u dey? Miss ur bubbly self.
Chief: Yes, my love, you most certainly kissed Mr. T. But I dunno why it’s an issue now; I mean, you liked it then, didn’t you? I’m sure you did.
Anonymous: You might be anonymous, but I know it’s you. Busola, respect yourself o! How dare you call me a fool on my own blog? Don’t make me vex and just fire you as my friend; you know you won’t be able 2 survive that.
Vera, leave me alone o. I don’t want to cry anymore…
Tinks
goodness Vera… at first i was like VERA CANNOT POSSIBLY BE BLOGGING ABOUT THIS… but i knew there was a twist…cuz u crazy like that. anyways girl have a good rest of ur week… till next wednesday i guess
what makes u think it’s Busola? Something is wrong with u? U need help? I will see if psychodynamic will work for ur issues.
Tinkerbell: LOL. Sorry, poor baby! Don’t cry anymore, okay? Jide obi gi aka. I think you’re not Igbo, but I don’t feel like interpreting either.
Diamond: LOL. But hey, toothbrush sharing is just as important! How u dey? Are you back yet? Evidently, I have not checked your blog, but I shall do so tomorrow. Sweet dreams, babe
Anonymous: Busola please! You’re the only one who is psycho enough to come here and start talking about psychodynamics.
lol…you this gurl,i even went to get my breakfast to eat while readn your “story” only to see it was about a toothbrush,mind urself oh!!!I luv Robin Thicke sooo much….if he wasnt with Paula Patton…uhn,if he wasnt oh!!!
Yuck! Sharing a toothbrush is just sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo gross.
Mr Thicke is soooo hot. You thought he was black? Well a snippet…His wife is black – Paula Patton. If you have seen Deja Vu with Denzel Washington, then she is the lead acress
Naija Vixen: My dear, the story is worth you eating ur breakfast over now….ah ah! As for Robin Thicke, chei! I am in love o! I cannot get enough of him. Lucky wife, he has. Mm mm mm!
Uzo: Yes, oh, Robin Thicke is absolutely hottt!!! I know that’s his wife, and I have to admit that I am jealous!!! He even puts her in his videos; how many other artists do that? Chei! I’ve really started rethinking my opposition 2 dating/marrying a white man o. I mean, is it really that bad?
LOL… OMG… for a second there I thought it was going to be some jist :-)… but yeah, sharing a toothbrush was, hmmm… a little gross.. whether he asked for it or if you gave it to him willingly..
~DD
Toothbrush my ass!!! i thought you were gonna give us correct gist.
My goodness, toothbrush sharing is a pretty heavy deal. so you have, gosh, how was it, did it feel any different..How have you been, very well I hope. Take care girly.
Adaoha
LOL…I’m tired of calling you crazy girl self 🙂
I’ve only heard one of Robin Thicke’s song, and I loved it.
RE: Kitu Kizuri mag
Can I get it from naija?
Have a wonderful weekend Missy!
mumu why u never call me since. i know ur ass is not too busy to call me.
i’m about to use izal to clean my mouth.
ms zee where u don dey.na canada no gree u come online.
–oye–oye, If you tempt me too much i will tell them how it actually happened. Even give them the date and time sef plus not just that i will even tell em of how it only took me two steps from to my car across the street to get the GoldCircle. Akuna-kuna
Can’t wait to read about your other first’s! lol!
I knew it. she don kolo. so you even 2… naughty girl… i think say u wan yan better thing sef… *hissssssss*
you better put up what u intended. or else….
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! This gal what are u doing o? Lemme read ur post and i’ll be back.
U dis gal, thank God it wasn’t what i thot u were going to write. Almost gave me a panic attack. But, sharing ur toothbrush is deep o. I’ve never done it and can’t see myself ever doing it. YUKKITY YUCK!!!
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R u sure it’s only ‘toothbrush’ u gave him and not d other one? don’t worry, i’ll find out….lol
I wrote this last night. Was gonna show it to you but you were too busy so i figure i post it and maybe somebody you’ll find it. Call me when u can
Essa
Oh sorry, would make sense if i put the link right..
http://essabanty.blogspot.com/2007/04/before-i-knew.html
Discombulated Diva: LOL. Sharing toothbrush is gross ehn? Well, I felt the same way before I did.
Delilah: Don’t worry, watch out for part two. I won’t disappoint you…a lot. LOL
Life Of A Stranger: LOL. You’re funny. See how you’re checking up on my well being; na only toothbrush I share o! LOL. You sound like I just donated a kidney and half of my heart sef. LOL
Nilla: Wait, are you in Naija? What have I missed? Sista, update me abeg. Kitu Kizuri is not international yet…to my knowledge, but I will find out. Seriously, r u in Naija? I’ll call u.
ChiefO: I’ve been busy o! You no know how busy I have been. And who are you calling mumu? Respect urself o!
EssaBanty: LOL. You’ll tell them how what happened? Na threat?? Don’t make me — in short, never mind. Be glad that someone has pleaded on ur behalf. Imagine the likeness!!
Chidi: LOL. Okay, stay tuned for my “other” first. But don’t hold ur breathe o!
UnNaked Soul: And what makes you think this is not what I intended to write about? Wetin u come mean sef? And this one that you’re well and able to post a comment on my blog, does that mean you have not gone to see my father as I ordered? I know you haven’t cause u woulda been on a wheelchair if you had. So wetin come dey hold u?? And this na correct gist o!
Cherub: I see you have changed ur avatar ehn? What are you tryna do? Tempt the blogville men? You no fit o! If u want sef, make u strip naked, u no go fit!! And take a deep breathe, I’m not gonna talk about “our” (you and me) first time….yet.
EssaBanty: Okay, lemme go check it out!!
can i hiss now? I thot it was the OTHER first!! U tease!
LOL
You silly gal!!!!!!!! I have no qualms sharing anything, dunno why. Try using London Bukis fork and watch her vomii.
I want Mr Robin tooooo! I have to know wht the hype is about.
Vera,you are such a tease! I was intrigued until I scrolled down but I guess that was the point… I have never willingly shared my toothbrush with anyone except that one time when my sister gave my cousin Roop my toothbrush to use- I should have known something was wrong-the taste was way off-and besides she was laughing hilariously on the floor. So no way will I ever let someone use my toothbrush…
Just Me: LOL. You bloggers all have dirty minds o! See them, waiting for hot stuff. LOL. Una no serious @ all.
Tayo: I bet you too were expecting something else ehn? LOL
TMinx: you have no qualms sharing anything? Yuck! LOL. Me, I do oh. I’d really rather not share ANYTHING, but I share my stuff with friends sha. Somethings r just way off limit jo. That toothbrush sharing thing was a giant leap of faith for me; never been done b4.
Simply Gorgeous: LOL. The taste was off ke? Hahaha. Pele o. Ewwww. I cannot imagine the taste of the toothbrush. Was it that bad that you actually noticed a different taste? LOL. Sorry sha. That musta screwed up your functionality. I dunno how I’d feel about that
Sharing a toothbrush is a big thing. I remember my first time…
?the blogger formerly known as Tinks
awwwwwwww….the first time u shared ur toothbrush???
Awesome…
(lollll…u naughty naughty Vera)
Did I say awesome? Eeeeeuuuuuuwwwww…how could you???
Anonymous: You remember your first time doing? Are we still talking about the toothbrush kini? Confess!!
Jaycee: lol. Yes babe, you did say awesome. So even if you change ur mind now, the fact is that the deed has already been done. The words have already been spoken, so cannot be taken back.
you gave him ur toothbrush – what if he had declined it? Is that all you gave him that day? LOL!!!
EEEeewwwwwwwwwww…in the bathroom, not even yours…sorry some ppl say i’m OCD nothing personel…bathroom, germs (someone elses germs)BIG eeeeeeewww
it seems have heard this story before…. wait a minute……o sorry…..let me begin……you know we were just friends never dated, always going to movies, partied together you know, the bag, the shoes, the…… so this night we at …….house lying on the bed i was patient,i wanted it…. i started with a peck…a kiss…. nibble at the neck…..she did not move did not tell me to stop so i moved on to her cleavage and i touched it……it was victory… sheer victory….there it goes her name in my b…….k and so we made love or no we f….k..d…. good cos i knew once it started it would not stop….so that it….is there more i need to add?….let me remember was it Si…….. or was it…….dunno but i bet i heard it before in a more ……..way. i bet you …………
nice one!! You actually had me going there. V funny.