I generally like Oge Okoye. I can't say she's the best or worst of anything, but she's okay to look at. I like her more when she does a realistic role - whatever that may be - than when she does the runs girl/bad girl type of roles. I find those more annoying than entertaining. Here she is on a magazine cover in a blanket. I loathe these blankets. We never had one of these blankets in Nigeria because my parents came back with blankets from Russia that were three inches thick and weighed Read More
Ladies & Gentlemen, How Do You Feel About Vaginal Sprays?

You're probably wondering why the heck I'm asking men how they feel about vaginal sprays. Well, they go down there, that's why I'm asking - not that I would know anything about that [insert straight face]. I started using vaginal sprays a little over a year ago, and I like them. For me, the decision to use a lot of things like lotion, fragrances, deodorant, hair spray, etc depends a lot on what it smells like. I'm a very big sniffer, so it has to smell good. There are several brands - and I Read More
So … About This Anti Rape Condom

I don't remember how I stumbled upon this bewilderment that is the Rape aXe = anti rape condom, but maybe I just need clarification from you guys - although chances are that you will be just as bewildered as I am. I think that the idea of an anti rape condom is a beautiful thing because I can only imagine how many women will be safe from having to go through that trauma. The anti rape condom was developed by a brilliant South African woman, Sonette Ehlers who works as a blood technician. On Read More
Attention! He Needs A Well-Trained Igbo Girl

A year ago, I wrote an article - Top 12 Reasons Why Igbos & Yorubas Should Not Marry. This write-up was posted on several Nigerian sites, and it was written in my usual style: drenched in overflowing sarcasm. Ever since I put that post up, I have received all kinds of insults, and they have been hilarious. Some people comment and understand what angle I'm coming from, but then, the rest clearly have no lesson in sarcasm, and they make it a point to tell me how stupid I am. Sure. The things I Read More
For The Woman Who Is Still Waiting For Her Man
I watched this video for the first time about two years ago. I had forgotten about it until I came across it again. It's about a woman who is still waiting for her man. I'm sure some of you have watched it. If you have, that's okay. But for those who haven't watched it, or who have watched it and forgotten the message, please enjoy it again. It's a poem by Janette ...ikz, and it's called, I will wait ... for you. Read More
