If I wasn’t sure before, now I know for sure that men DO love bitches. Hopefully not all of them. And for those of them that say they do not love bitches, the fact is that they do; they just don’t know it yet. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
If you’re wondering why I have chosen to talk about men and their disturbing love for bitches, it is because yesterday I had an incident, and I am pissed! No, no, no, more like fed up. Yeap, that’s what it is. I am fed up.
In the description of my blog (right below the title), I promised to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, but I also did say I might not tell the whole story. So right now, I am not telling the whole story, but I am telling the truth.
It has occured to me that men seem not to be able to deal with “nice” women. I mean, sure, they say they want a nice woman, but what they really want is a woman who will be a bitch. They want a woman who will be a challenge and make them sweat for everything. They need a woman who will not give a shit about him, and not do anything special for him. Why? Because even if she does do something nice/thoughtful/romantic for him, somehow, it will be misinterpreted into something else. Somehow, he will end up hanging the phone up on her. He will tell her she has never done, and does not do now anything ‘special’ for him. Sure, she might have taken time to do this special thing (or rather, this thing that she thought should be considered special), but hey, what about that other time that he did something special – when was it, one, two, three years ago???
Aaarrrrgggghhhhhh!!!!!! I’m pissed. Can you tell?
I need to become a bitch. I need to become Busola. Hahaha. She’s gonna kill me if she reads this. Seriously, Busola can be a real bitch when she needs to, and sometimes, I really wish I could be like her. Well, it’s not too late, I guess.
I’ve been listening to R. Kelly’s When A Woman’s Fed Up. It’s a really nice song. I’ve always loved it, and what better time to listen to it?
Click HERE to see the video.
Click HERE to read the lyrics.
So….what are you pissed off about/fed up with today?
VeriHoney… hope you are better today.
I have to say I agree with you… from my own experiences… when I have ignored a guy, picked up his calls only a few times and I am unavailable most times, he wants more… when I show a guy how much I care for him, want to talk to him and hang out with him often, he starts to act like I am a nuisance.
Take care luv.
BTW, I am FIRST!!!
uh oh, u sound like a jilted lover. I am getting a kick out of this. The truth is that the same goes for women. Women sometimes look for luv where there is none.
If u had sent the pics I ask for, the rest would have been history. Guys like us are rear to come bye.
I havent even read what you wrote today.. but i just wanted to say “I AM SPOOKED THAT YOUR NEO COUNTER THINGY IS MONITORING MY COMING IN AND GOING OUT FROM THIS PAGE>>> COMPLETELY SPOOKED>>> SHIT I WON”T BE ABLE TO LEAVE YOU HATEMAIL FOR BUYING THOSE SHOES THAT I WAS IN LINE TO GET B4 U STEPPED IN WITH YOU GREEN EYES AND LONG LEGS AND took!!!! nONSENSE AND INGREDIENTS.. LEMME CLOSE UR PAGE AND TRY TO COME BACK IN AND SEE IF UR COMPUTER WILL BE SMART ENUFF 2 RECOGNIZE ME THIS TIME!!! LOL
London Buki: Abi o! I cannot understand why men would rather have a nagging woman. They may say they don’t, but the fact is that they do.
Anonymous: So sending my picture would have changed all this, huh? Uhm, how exactly???
Overwhelmed: Something is really wrong with you oh. So you’re gonna leave and come back to see if it’s still able 2 detect you, ehn? Well, that other reader from United States is me. I can see you’re still on m page cause it says I have a reader from Canada. Nne, ala na yi gi oh!
In fact, gimme your mom’s number. I need to tell her that her daughter bu onye ala.
LMAO.. I LUV THE FACT THAT DIAMOND HAS A WHAT SHE’S THANKFUL POST AND ONLY THIS GREEN-EYE GIRL VERA WILL HAVE WHAT IS PISSIN YOU OFF.. ABEG CARRY YOUR UNCLE OBINNA ENERGY GO JARE!!!.. LOL WHAT I’M PISSED ABOUT.. OH THERES TOO MUCH OH… MY BLOODY FUCKING STINKY HOUSEMATE, NASTY PERVY MALES THAT ARE ALWAYS CHECKING OUT MY BOOTY AND UNDERNEATH MY TOWEL WHEN I’M GOING TO TAKE A SHOWER, IM PISSED THAT I THINK ONE OLD WHITE NASTY OLD NASTY STINKY HOUSEMATE OF MINE HAS PROBABLY SNIFFED MY UNDERWEAR(I DROPPED IT ON MY WAY FROM THE BATHROOM AND HE FULLY WALKED TO MY ROOM WITH MY UNDERWEAR IN HIS HAND TO GIVE ME!!!)… I HATE THE FACT THAT MY OTHER FAT STINKY HOUSEMATE STINKS!!!HE SHOULD TAKE A SHOWER.. IF I’D KNOWN HE LIVED IN THIS HOUSE… IWOULDN’T HAVE RENTED IT COS HE MAKES ME UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN I’M WALKING AROUND MY OWN DAMN HOUSE WITHOUT A BRA.. I HATE THAT FACT THAT MY OTHER HOUSEMATE IS ALWAYS KNOCKING ON MY DOOR WHEN I’M HAVING SEX… AND INTERRUPTING.. WAT THE FUCK DOES HE WANT? i”M FUCKIN DAMMIT!!! i HATE the BlonDE BITCH WHO LIVES IN MY BASEMENT>>> IN FACT I”M SO ANGRY ABOUT THAT STUPID CHICK THAT I”M GONNA PUT A POST UP ON HER SUMTIME SOON!!! i mean my male housemates are pervs(except for 2).. even my boyfriend and best friend are like babe u gotta be careful here cos these fuckers look like they just want you… THE NONSENSE!!!lol.. no mind me jare.. these ppl just piss me off sometimes with their stinkiness, strange attitudes and sniffiness!!! NOSY BASTARDS!!!
Oh I feel you, Vera! You are spot on! Most men, especially those who think getting laid would earn then some trophy, love bitches! They hound them as if their life depend on their body; oh sorry, I mean booty!
Mind you my dear Vera, guys could come across as though they love bitches, it is for no other reason than nookie, after which they take a hike and move to the next girl in line. But when that important decision is to be made a la choice of life partner, men go for decent, cool, calm and cultured lady. No real man settles for bitches!!
Don’t stretch your notion of men and their love for bitches too far. I don’t like bitches coz they are good as bedmates, not as wife!!!!
BITCHES ARE BRAINLESS!!
Londonbuki,
Life is a paradox. While it may be true that guys don’t appreciate your niceties, I’ll suggest you stick to your style but with a piece of advice: do not give up nookie – One of the golden rules!
Be informed that it is your value system, style, and friendliness that will land you that special guy who will appreciate the beauty of character and love that issues from your heart, which of course does not mean you are cheap!
Nne which one is all this pissed words … U talk say u swear to tell the whole truth and all u did was took us on a roller coaster ride and did not even mention what happened ..oya post the story before ….. LOL
Not all men like this o …exceptions still dey just like some women like bad boys too ..
Gurl I will definately try and post smth ASAP ..just been busy with work and trying to upgrade myself to a new position ..lots of damn information ..my head is taking a beating I tell u ..
Take care
Please who pissed Vera off? Report yourself now before…!!!
Yeah Vera, wot exactly took place, I guess it feels that way atimes, but I dont think guys like bitches though, take it easy girl.
darn, errybody checking up on vera like she’s some kinda superstar or something… i tell her dats she a a local champion… homegirl don dey go international ooo.. see how many countries read her blod alone… yes, i said countries not pple…lol
mehn, i wish i had a blog that no one can read… is dat ever possible? i cannot keep a diary ‘cos i am so careless, i can’t keep a blog neither ‘cos i donbt like putting ma self out there… anyone of vera’s fan wanna help??
inbtw…..overwhelmed naija babe, i must admit u be one crazy chick ooo, n i understand juss where u are coming from with them white roomies… an ex-bf used to have 3 white roomates… well, he still does, but d point is… those pple are nosy as hell… Jeez.
I remember one time one of dem eat Jalepenos…. u know d really spicy red pepper i kept in d fridge…. d idiot thot it was some kinda fruit…… onyi ara….ole… barawo.
Overwhelmed: Aiight gal, I get it, you’re REALLY pissed. But maybe they were knocking on your door (during sex) because they wanted 2 join?? lol. I dunno.
Joel: thanks jare for your words. I was just rather pissed, but I’m fine now. In fact, I’m great.
NaijaBloke: Ah, I’ve told you all I have to say oh. But if you say that not all guys love bitches, then I am happy to hear that.
Omoruyi: Don’t mind them oh. They pissed me off, but they will be very surprised. I mean, VERY surprised. Thanks!
Biodun: Gal, it’s a long story. It happened on monday and it’s already early hours of thursday, so I’m just gonna let it go. I feel a lot better now anyway.
Funmie: First of all, how come you’re awake? Don’t you usually fall asleep on your laptop @ about 7pm? Second of all, if you call me a local champion one more time ehn! And finally, stop disturbing my fine readers with your diary thing o. I told you to have an anonymous blog, didn’t I? But you no come gree. *hisses*
Stereotyping again, eh Vera? You’re not my type or I’d have asked you out and shown you a different kind of man.
girl, I totally feel you oh! Sometimes I too wish I could be a bit of a bitch, but I’m afraid its not in my nature (that’s why my mother named me beautifully human.LOL!)
Men do love bitches. I had a guy who trying to get with me tell me that he loves women who are mean and hardcore.