Even though this happens in everyday life, I watched a movie lately that just emphazised the issue in my head. The issue I’m talking about is partners (especially men) that do not know how to cling to their wives; instead they cling to their mothers. Bloody hell! I know it will not be easy for a man to just leave his mother and cling to this woman who isn’t even related to him by blood, but mother-in-laws can just be so evil. They always wanna prove something; they always wanna prove to the wives that they are the first in their sons’ lives. They need to just go ahead and marry their mothers. Wat rubbish!
I’m a very private person o. I love my privacy; I love my space; I love my alone-time. B4 I get married, my husband and I would have to talk about a lot of things…like relatives. I don’t mind if relatives come 2 my house every now and then, but not for them 2 come and kanda in my house, and then try 2 tell me how 2 run the house again – that’s bullshit. I don’t care whether they r his relatives or mine….no1 is coming 2 home to make it theirs. If they so much wanna run a home, then they need to go back 2 their spouses….or get married. Either way, they need 2 be out of my space. Those relatives can just be devil-sent. I know I have so much anger and disdain in my voice, but I have my reasons…trust me. But I dont wanna get in2 that right now sha.
Have a Blessed Day
p.s. I did put up Uju’s picture, but she kept beggin and beggin 2 take it off. Of course, u know I’m a kind-hearted girl/lady/woman, so I let her be.
But don’t worry, I will be putting more pix up….without a doubt!
:Hugz & Kisses:
