Hey Sweets! Remember I promised to do more videos? Well, I have a new one now. It's called, Maybe You're Just A Bad Friend. Watch, enjoy, and share. Pretty please. I started in this post trying to explain what the video is about, then I remembered ... it's a video. They're going to find out what it's about when they watch the video. I'm still learning how to be a vlogger, so please, bear with me. Thank you for watching! Please don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube Channel and share Read More
Dear Vera, I’m Married And Trapped
Dear Vera, I am a 32 year old woman who had been married before, had 2 kids, separated, and went back and had another child and 2 years later divorced. A little background: I was with my ex from the time I was just 16. He moved in with my family and we ended up getting pregnant and getting married. I had only had one other partner before him. After our first child, he cheated on me. We had another child, and in turn, years later I cheated on him. Eventually we separated for a year and got back Read More
Journal #2: February 2015
Welcome to March. Bet you thought I already abandoned my monthly journal, huh? Well, I didn't. Not yet, at least. How did February go for you? For me, it was a complete blur. For one thing, I forgot that it's only 28 days, so when the date on my phone read March 1st, I was shocked. March 1st??? Where did February go? Other than the blur, February was a pretty good month. I haven't been fired from my 9 to 5 (ha!) and you guys are still reading the blog. Then I received quite a few Dear Vera Read More
Let’s Talk About Claire Underwood On House Of Cards
Spoiler alert! If you haven't watched Season 3 to the end, don't read this post. This past weekend, Igwe and I --- and possibly most of America stayed home to binge-watch House of Cards. It started on Friday and ended on Sunday, but we didn't actually watch any episode on Saturday, so it was just Friday and Sunday. So in this season, Frank Underwood is President of the United States, and his wife, Claire Underwood is First Lady, of course. Okay, there are two major times that Claire pissed Read More
Dear Vera, I Slept With My Ex’s Mother [And Her Father Knows]
Dear Vera, I am in a very nasty fix which I don't know how to get out of. I work in one of the better established banks and in 2013 I met and started dating this girl that had been posted to our branch as a corper. We were an item for over 9 months, but when she left to complete a masters program abroad the relationship sort of fizzled out. Given that she had introduced me to a couple of her family members including her cousin, I accidentally bumped into this cousin in a party in VI, Read More