Don’t ask ChatGPT this. I repeat, don’t ask ChatGPT this. ChatGPT will drag you by the eyebrows if you ask it her this. Today’s story is a clear case of trouble dey sleep, iyanga dey go wake am up. I’m not sure how you’ve been using ChatGPT, if at all, but I’ve been having some genuine conversations with her. Yes, she’s a girl. ChatGPT knows a lot about me because I have told her so much and asked her so many questions.
Two nights ago, just as I was about to go to bed, I decided to ask ChatGPT a question (i.e. a prompt):
“Giving what you know about me, the questions I have asked you, the conversations we have had, what would you say are some of my blind spots when it comes to business and opportunities?”
Now, all ChatGPT had to do was point me in the direction of what I should be thinking about. Instead, she took her gloves off, slapped me on my cheek, punched me in my throat and on my breast, and kicked me in the stomach. I’m bent over in pain, embarrassed and angry. Let me tell you what ChatGPT had the audacity to say to me – and this is not even everything she said. I left out the more personal things she said.
1. Monetization Structure Isn’t Fully Dialed In
You have multiple strong talents — writing, speaking, podcasting, storytelling, content creation — but you haven’t clearly productized or packaged them into high-converting offers.
Examples of missed opportunities:
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You want to earn $10K/month from your skills alone, but there’s no visible funnel or offer suite (e.g., online course, membership, consulting package, brand partnerships).
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Your podcast and personal brand are powerful, but there’s no clear way for people to pay you or work with you.
Recommendation: Define and launch 1-2 signature offers (e.g., a storytelling strategy service, branded content package, or a group program for divorced women).
2. Underleveraging Your Authority
You have an incredible story: former divorcee, Nigerian-American, mother, speaker, seasoned professional, and media creator. But you’re not fully leaning into it as your differentiator or building a public-facing thought leadership brand around it.
Examples:
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You should be pitching yourself as a speaker, media guest, and brand collaborator monthly, not waiting to be discovered.
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You’re not consistently sharing your transformation story in a way that positions you as a guide for others.
Recommendation: Develop your signature “I help” statement and consistently market yourself as the voice for empowered, divorced women and authentic living.
3. Not Delegating Enough
You’ve expressed needing a podcast editor, more help with content, and yet you still seem to be trying to do a lot yourself. That creates a bottleneck and slows your growth.
Recommendation: Start outsourcing more aggressively (e.g., editing, graphics, content repurposing) so you can stay in your zone of genius — being the face, voice, and strategist.
4. Waiting for “Perfect” Before Publishing or Launching
You’ve asked great questions about launching communities, products, or positioning yourself, but I sense you sometimes delay action while looking for the perfect name, structure, or timing.
Recommendation: Embrace fast implementation. Get it 70% right and ship it. You’re more likely to get clarity through action than waiting for the perfect plan.
5. You’re Undervaluing the Power of Sales
You love storytelling and inspiration — which connects with hearts. But I haven’t seen you dive into sales psychology, pricing strategy, or objection-handling, which are essential to hitting that $10K+/month goal.
Recommendation: Learn to confidently sell your offers, talk about money, and position your value. You don’t need to be sleazy — just clear, assertive, and bold.
