{"id":5925,"date":"2013-03-19T09:00:53","date_gmt":"2013-03-19T13:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/verastic.com\/?p=5925"},"modified":"2013-03-18T21:49:18","modified_gmt":"2013-03-19T01:49:18","slug":"my-weekend-recount-solachis-30th-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/personal\/my-weekend-recount-solachis-30th-birthday.html","title":{"rendered":"My Weekend Recount: Solachi&#8217;s 30th Birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a while since I did a weekend recount, I know. That&#8217;s because nothing has really been happening. Either that or I don&#8217;t take pictures at the event. Well, this weekend was a little better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Friday:<\/strong> I attended an engagement ceremony. Yorubas call this an <em>Engagement<\/em>. As an Igbo girl, it&#8217;s more like a <em>traditional wedding<\/em>. But every time I call it a wedding, people ask me, <em>&#8216;what wedding?&#8217;<\/em> So okay, I&#8217;m sticking to <em>engagement<\/em> then. I didn&#8217;t take pictures at this <del>wedding<\/del> engagement, but I did meet several Verastic readers, and it was AWESOME! It was nice meeting you, ladies!! Keep reading, and thank you so much for the support \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n<p><strong>Saturday:<\/strong> My friend, Busola, turned 30. I&#8217;ve known her for over a decade. In high school, I used to call her Sola (Busola, without the <em>Bu<\/em>). But now, I call her <em>Solachi<\/em>. The <em>chi<\/em> is there to make her name Igbo. The alternative is <em>Solachukwu<\/em>, but I like Solachi better. When I first met Solachi, she was a teenager, and now, she&#8217;s 30, married, and a mommy of two. When I think of the fact that I have friends who are 30 and above, it&#8217;s freaky. Although I am not 30 yet, I can see 30 from a distance. And walahi, I still think I&#8217;m 21. I&#8217;m gonna ask my mom, just to make sure she didn&#8217;t mistakenly <em>dash<\/em> me some years. These things happen, no?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><div id=\"attachment_5927\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Everyone.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5927\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5927\" alt=\"L to R: Funmie, Seun [Funmie's sister], Solachi, Me, and Aunt Oma\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Everyone.jpg\" width=\"650\" height=\"488\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Everyone.jpg 650w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Everyone-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5927\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">L to R: Funmie, Seun [Funmie&#8217;s sister], Solachi, Me, and Aunt Oma<\/p><\/div>We were all looking at another camera, hence the looking-away post. And ehm, Funmie, do we need to talk about this pose?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5928\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/The-Channel-Cake.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5928\" class=\" wp-image-5928\" alt=\"The Channel Cake (Thanks, Solachi!)\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/The-Channel-Cake.jpg\" width=\"650\" height=\"488\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/The-Channel-Cake.jpg 650w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/The-Channel-Cake-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5928\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The Channel cake that I did not taste<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5929\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Solachi-and-me.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5929\" class=\" wp-image-5929\" alt=\"Solachi and me\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Solachi-and-me.jpg\" width=\"650\" height=\"867\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Solachi-and-me.jpg 650w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Solachi-and-me-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5929\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Solachi and me (and Deola lurking in the background)<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5930\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Uju-and-Me.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5930\" class=\" wp-image-5930\" alt=\"Uju and Me\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Uju-and-Me.jpg\" width=\"650\" height=\"867\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Uju-and-Me.jpg 650w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Uju-and-Me-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5930\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Me and Uju (our doctor), and no, we did not plan to wear glasses<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5931\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Me-and-Lauren.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5931\" class=\" wp-image-5931\" alt=\"Me and Lauren\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Me-and-Lauren.jpg\" width=\"650\" height=\"867\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Me-and-Lauren.jpg 650w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Me-and-Lauren-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5931\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Me and Lauren. The party ain&#8217;t done until you pose with someone&#8217;s baby. This is Solachi&#8217;s gorgeous daughter, Lauren<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5932\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Me-Lauren-and-Aunt-Oma.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5932\" class=\" wp-image-5932\" alt=\"Me, Lauren, and Aunt-Oma\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Me-Lauren-and-Aunt-Oma.jpg\" width=\"650\" height=\"867\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Me-Lauren-and-Aunt-Oma.jpg 650w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Me-Lauren-and-Aunt-Oma-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5932\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Me, Aunt Oma, and Lauren (who was preoccupied with eating my glasses)<\/p><\/div>\n<p>So that was how my weekend went. It was really, really nice being with everyone. We&#8217;re all so busy with life, so having the opportunity to hang out again, especially to celebrate, is always a blessing.<\/p>\n<p>Solachi, happy birthday. I wish you long life, health, prosperity, and all the happiness in the world. I am so happy for you. You deserve all the joy in the world and much more.<\/p>\n<p>So how was your weekend?<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> Solachi&#8217;s baby, Lauren, is the one who was in the tummy when we celebrated Solachi&#8217;s baby shower last year. I blogged about it <a href=\"http:\/\/verastic.com\/vl\/my-weekend-recount-a-baby-shower-other-stories.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a while since I did a weekend recount, I know. That&#8217;s because nothing has really been happening. Either that or I don&#8217;t take pictures at the event. Well, this weekend was a little better. 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