{"id":402,"date":"2010-01-07T06:54:00","date_gmt":"2010-01-07T06:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/verastic.com.s96953.gridserver.com\/site\/?p=402"},"modified":"2010-01-07T06:54:00","modified_gmt":"2010-01-07T06:54:00","slug":"these-are-a-few-of-my-favorite-love-needs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/social\/these-are-a-few-of-my-favorite-love-needs.html","title":{"rendered":"These Are A Few Of My Favorite Love-Needs"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 2:<\/b> He must be crazy about me and not be afraid to show it.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 3:<\/b> He must have an uncanny sense of humor and be able to understand my jokes.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 5:<\/b> He must be 100% faithful to me.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 6:<\/b> He must miss me <i>always<\/i>.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 11: <\/b>He must be supportive of my career. &nbsp;That means helping me to edit, and not picking fights with me over the content.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 12:<\/b> He must be willing &#8211; in fact, eager &#8211; to do some <i>subtle<\/i> public display of affection like a kiss here and there (a kiss on my forehead or cheeks), his hand in my back pocket, his hand on my thigh while we&#8217;re at the table, etc.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 14:<\/b> He must not be abusive to me (physically, emotionally, verbally, <i>financially<\/i>, etc).<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 16:<\/b> He must be 100% attracted to me.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 21:<\/b> He must be vulnerable. &nbsp;It is part of being human.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Number 27:<\/b> Finally, he must be the one God designated for me and me alone. &nbsp;He must be my soul mate.<\/div>\n<div><i><br \/><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: right;\"><i>Written on Wednesday, December 17th 2008<\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: right;\"><i>11:10 am.<\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: right;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">These are a few of my favorite love needs &#8230; 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Talk Radio<\/span><\/a><\/b> will be resuming its regular schedule this Saturday at 10am [U.S. EST. &amp; 4pm Nigerian time). &nbsp;It&#8217;ll be a two-hour show; the first hour will be dedicated to the lists we keep in life [New Year&#8217;s resolutions, love lists, to-do lists, goals&#8217; lists, etc]. &nbsp;The second half hour will be spent talking about Umar Farouk AbdulMutallab.<\/p>\n<p>As I promised last year, I&#8217;ll be <i>serenading<\/i> you with a lot of new co-hosts. &nbsp;This week&#8217;s co-host is <b><a href=\"http:\/\/justjoxy.wordpress.com\/\"><span style=\"color: blue;\">Just Joxy<\/span><\/a><\/b>, and she&#8217;ll be co-hosting all the way from U.K.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that only one hour is dedicated to each topic, so call <i>on time<\/i>, but before you call, please know what you want to say, so we can move faster.<\/p>\n<p>Click <b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogtalkradio.com\/verastic\/2010\/01\/09\/the-list-does-it-work\"><span style=\"color: blue;\">here<\/span><\/a><\/b> on Saturday to listen to the show.<\/p>\n<p>Questions\/comments? &nbsp;<b>radio@verastic.com<\/b> &lt;&lt;&gt;&gt; <b>1.443.934.9039<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Follow me on <b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.twitter.com\/verastic\"><span style=\"color: blue;\">Twitter<\/span><\/a><\/b> for updates.<\/p>\n<p>On that note, please go and vote in the polls. &nbsp;There are two of them for this week. &nbsp;From the results so far, it appears that either people do not know what a <i>love list<\/i> is, or they just don&#8217;t call it a love list. &nbsp;Please vote!! &nbsp;And wake up early on Saturday morning; it&#8217;s time to <i>have<\/i> your Verastic. &nbsp;*wink, wink*<\/p>\n<p>Oh, how could I forget? &nbsp; It&#8217;s exactly one week before my birthday. &nbsp;Have you seen &#8220;<b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.verastic.com\/2010\/01\/on-first-day-of-2010.html\"><span style=\"color: blue;\">The List<\/span><\/a><\/b>&#8221; lately? &nbsp;It&#8217;s grown. &nbsp;Go and order my birthday gift now&#8230; <i>while supplies last<\/i>. &nbsp;Let me know if you need a home address (instead of a P. 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