{"id":387,"date":"2009-11-21T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2009-11-21T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/verastic.com.s96953.gridserver.com\/site\/?p=387"},"modified":"2009-11-21T05:00:00","modified_gmt":"2009-11-21T05:00:00","slug":"to-hold-on-or-to-let-go-that-is-the-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/social\/to-hold-on-or-to-let-go-that-is-the-question.html","title":{"rendered":"To Hold On Or To Let Go: That Is The Question!"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>&#8220;Sometimes, the best way to hold on is to let go&#8230;&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: right;\"><i>Spoken by my newest co-host, Mustapha.<\/i><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I&#8217;m not sure what is easier to do in a relationship: holding on or letting go?  If I had to take a wild guess, I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s easier to hold on than it is to let go, but I don&#8217;t have any scientific proof.  Scientific proof is needed for everthing these days.  Even God needs to scientifically prove that He is God, and that He really did create us and the world we live in.  But I digress.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>In exactly ten (10) hours, <b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogtalkradio.com\/verastic\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"  style=\"color:#3333FF;\">Verastically Speakin Talk Radio<\/span><\/a><\/b> (that is now fondly called the <i>Verastic Show <\/i>by its wonderful listeners) will go LIVE, and we will be talking about when to hold on and when to let go of a relationship.  I cannot promise that listening to the show will give you an epiphany about what the next step should be in your relationship; what I can promise is that you&#8217;ll enjoy the show, you&#8217;ll learn a little &#8211; hopefully a lot, and you&#8217;ll definitely laugh.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.verastic.com\/2009\/11\/styling-profiling-funmie.html\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"  style=\"color:#FF0000;\">Funmie<\/span><\/a><\/b> is one of the co-hosts.  If you&#8217;ve never heard her voice; don&#8217;t worry&#8230; you&#8217;ll know it&#8217;s her.  Just listen for the loudest person.  According to the <i>Verastic Show<\/i> listeners, she often sounds like she&#8217;s talking with a microphone.  But that&#8217;s just her voice &#8211; her <i>inside voice<\/i> for that matter!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b><a href=\"http:\/\/gllady.blogspot.com\/\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"  style=\"color:#FF0000;\">Reverence<\/span><\/a><\/b> is also one of the co-hosts.  You&#8217;ll probably know it&#8217;s her.  She&#8217;ll be the one shaking like a dry leaf in winter, afraid of disagreeing with the loud one (Funmie).  <\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>And finally, Mustapha will be there.  He&#8217;ll give us words of wisdom &#8211; like that quote in the beginning of this post &#8211; and he might make us laugh. He&#8217;s quite the comedian as I&#8217;ve come to realize.  Hopefully, though, he won&#8217;t sing.  Sorry, Mustapha&#8230; that karaoke scarred me! <span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Wingdings; \"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: x-large;\">J<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Between the time this post comes up and the time the polls close, you have exactly 9.5 hours to vote, so go vote!  It&#8217;s on the top right sidebar.  Thank you, sweethearts.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>When you&#8217;re done voting, click <b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogtalkradio.com\/verastic\/2009\/11\/21\/when-to-hold-on-and-when-to-let-go\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"  style=\"color:#3333FF;\">here<\/span><\/a><\/b> at 10:00 am U.S. EST (4: 00 pm Nigerian time) to listen to the show.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>E-mail <b>radio@verastic.com<\/b> if you have any comments.  Or call\/text 1.443.934.9039.  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If you have any suggestions for gifts that should or should not be given and\/or to whom said gifts or any other gifts should be given, e-mail <b>radio@verastic.com<\/b> asap<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>If you sell a product or render a service that you wish to offer to the Verastic readers\/listeners, e-mail <b>radio@verastic.com<\/b> asap.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Other than that, you can expect to hear my beaurriful voice in 10 hours.  How lucky are you! Hehehe.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Sometimes, the best way to hold on is to let go&#8230;&#8221; Spoken by my newest co-host, Mustapha. I&#8217;m not sure what is easier to do in a relationship: holding on or letting go? 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