{"id":377,"date":"2009-10-29T04:21:00","date_gmt":"2009-10-29T04:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/verastic.com.s96953.gridserver.com\/site\/?p=377"},"modified":"2009-10-29T04:21:00","modified_gmt":"2009-10-29T04:21:00","slug":"dear-boyfriend-will-you-give-me-your-password","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/social\/dear-boyfriend-will-you-give-me-your-password.html","title":{"rendered":"Dear Boyfriend, Will You Give Me Your Password?"},"content":{"rendered":"
Dear Boyfriend,<\/b><\/div>\n
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Will you give me the password to your e-mail account? Yes, I’m having a hard time keeping up with all five of my e-mail accounts, but still, I’d like to check up on yours – every now and then. Although I’ll probably not even have the time to do so, I’d like to know that if I were to wake up one morning feeling a little unsafe or unsure about our relationship… and I were to feel compelled to check up on your e-mail account, I would have the access to do so.<\/div>\n
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Dear Boyfriend,<\/b><\/div>\n
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Will you give me the password to your phone? I promise I won’t reply any text message – no matter how questionable I might find it. I just want to know who is texting you and what she<\/i><\/b> is writing. I’m curious about who is calling you and how long you spend talking to her<\/i><\/b>. I won’t pick up your calls – unless you’re not there and I feel it necessary to take the calls. If that happens, I promise not to be rude. I have no intention to listen to your voicemail, but I hope you won’t mind if I become curious enough to do so.<\/div>\n
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Dear Boyfriend,<\/b><\/div>\n
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Will you give me the pin to your bank account? I don’t want to withdraw your money. I don’t want to steal from you. It’ll just make me feel closer to you, safer with you, and more intimate with you . I’ll feel as though I know another part of you. Men hardly share their financial truths, right? Share yours with me; I just want to know, that’s all. If I see that you spent a ridiculous amount of money at Victoria’s Secret – even though I never received any gift(s) from Victoria’s Secret – I would gulp and believe you spent it all on your sister.<\/div>\n
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Dear Boyfriend,<\/b><\/div>\n
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Will you give me the password to your Facebook account? Each time I check your profile and see that you have recently become friends with one girl or the other, I cannot help but wonder who she is and what she wants from you. I find myself wondering what you have in your inbox. Who sends you mails via facebook? What does she<\/i><\/b> write to you? I’d like to know. I’m not one of those<\/i> girlfriends. I won’t go replying your e-mails. But I’d like to know who is e-mailing you and why.<\/div>\n
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Dear Boyfriend, will you give me your password?<\/i><\/b><\/div>\n
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Now, before you all start including Mr. Shoes in your prayer requests and asking Baba God to deliver him from the paranoid Vera, I should clarify that what you read above isn’t about me … and is especially not about Mr. Shoes. It’s about what we’ll be discussing on Saturday on Verastically Speakin.’<\/span><\/a><\/b> We’re calling it Password Keeper<\/span><\/a><\/b>. Tell me: would you share your password(s) with your significant other?<\/i><\/b> The show will air LIVE on Saturday, October 31st 2009 – 10:00am U.S. EST \/ 3:00pm GMT\/Nigerian time. <\/b> Join us. But before you do, please vote in the poll. It’s on the top of the right sidebar. Thank you, darlings.<\/div>\n
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Listen to the show LIVE<\/b> on Saturday HERE<\/span><\/a><\/b><\/div>\n
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Send e-mails about the show to radio@verastic.com<\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
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Call me: 1.443.934.9039<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
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Call the show during the LIVE segment: 1.646.929.1905 <\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n

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One more thing…I’d like to think that I have mentioned it before, but perhaps, I have not mentioned it enough: For <\/span>every<\/i><\/span> <\/span>Verastically Speakin’<\/span><\/a> show, I need a co-host. The list of shows on the left sidebar is there to let everyone know what’s coming up and what I need a co-host for. If the show has been scheduled and there’s no name listed as the co-host, it means I need one. If the show has not yet been scheduled [one of those ones listed below the scheduled shows] but you think you’d like to co-host it, let me know, so we can work something out asap. Lastly, I welcome show ideas …. thank you.<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
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radio@verastic.com <<<>>> 1.443.934.9039<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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