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One of those moments, I guess.<\/p>\n<p>I cannot really remember the exact date (which is weird cause gals usually remember such things), but I know it was sometime in April or May of 2005. Mr. T and I had been hanging out a lot, not quite dating yet (at least not to my knowledge). We spent a lotta time in Uju&#8217;s house; we had a ritual of hanging out every Friday night, and some nights, we slept in Uju&#8217;s house (that was our hangout spot). There was nothing going on between us though &#8211; no pecking, kissing, or anything more than that even. The most we did was hug. Until the morning it happened.<\/p>\n<p>At the risk of making his head swell, I would say he was a very patient guy. He never pushed for anything. Once I said no, he let it go. But that morning was different &#8211; not because he asked for anything, but because I willingly <em>gave<\/em> it to him, and he was pleasantly surprised. I had woken up that Saturday morning in Uju&#8217;s house as usual. I brushed my teeth with the toothbrush I permanently kept @ Uju&#8217;s house while Mr. was still sleeping. After brushing my teeth, I woke him up and asked him to meet me in the bathroom. And that was where it happened&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;I gave him my toothbrush!! The moment was surreal, almost unbelieveable. I, Vera, first and only daughter of my father, I shared my toothbrush!! Can you believe this? He didn&#8217;t ask for it; I willingly gave it to him. And it was not a toothbrush I was intending to throw away o! It was a perfectly good toothbrush.  Sure, I don&#8217;t use it all the time, but still, it was a perfectly good toothbrush.<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\"><span style=\"color:#33ff33;\"><strong>**************************************<\/strong><\/span><\/div>\n<p>Kitu Kizuri is finally out and about. Those that have received their copies had nothing but good words 2 say about it. It&#8217;s not late to subscribe, so you can also get the first issue. It&#8217;s a GREAT read, and I would recommend it to all Africans &#8211; men and women alike. And it is not expensive either, so you cannot say money is the problem. Check <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kitukizuri.com\/\"><strong><span style=\"color:#ffff33;\">www.kitukizuri.com<\/span><\/strong><\/a> for more details, please.<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\"><span style=\"color:#33ff33;\">*************************************<\/span><\/div>\n<div align=\"left\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umusic.dk\/MCM\/covers\/robinthicke_theevolution_cover.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.umusic.dk\/MCM\/covers\/robinthicke_theevolution_cover.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>I just bought Robin Thicke&#8217;s new CD, &#8216;The Evolution of Robin Thicke&#8217;, and I am loving it! The CD came with a free &#8216;Lost Without You&#8217; ringtone, and of course, I have been enjoying it. Who wouldn&#8217;t? I have to say, I absolutely love the CD. Robin Thicke is just sooo soulful. Until I saw his picture, I was sure he was black. I love it!! Did I already say that??<\/p>\n<p>Until next wednesday, have a wonderful week!<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I still cannot believe I am about to tell you this story. What has gotten into me? I seem to have lost my inhibitions. Could it be the can of coke I just downed? Anyway, Mr. T was my first. Before him, I had never done it with anyone else. 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