{"id":2059,"date":"2012-02-15T09:30:36","date_gmt":"2012-02-15T14:30:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/verastic.com\/?p=2059"},"modified":"2012-10-18T02:20:45","modified_gmt":"2012-10-18T06:20:45","slug":"in-preparation-for-marriage-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/vl\/in-preparation-for-marriage-3.html","title":{"rendered":"In Preparation For Marriage [3]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I did my first post on the preparation for marriage, I did not intend to follow it up with two more posts, neither did I literally mean that I was preparing for marriage. It was my mother&#8217;s sentiments toward my inability to cook bitter leaf soup that inspired the name of the post. Since then, I figured, why stop now?<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not the biggest cook. I can&#8217;t cook all the foods I&#8217;ve ever eaten, but the things I can cook, I cook them so flippin&#8217; well &#8212; if I do say so myself. Anyone who disagrees is hereby banned from eating my food. Take note before you leave a comment. So I was on my way home on Thursday when a sudden desire to eat fajitas hit my taste buds. That&#8217;s the way I remember the story. Prior to this desire, the only times I&#8217;ve eaten fajitas were when I was at Chili&#8217;s restaurant. So, on Thursday, I decided to boycott Chili&#8217;s and try the darn thing myself.<\/p>\n<p>Off I went to the grocery store \u00a0&#8211; after googling the recipe. In my mind now, I&#8217;m a <em>cook<\/em>. \u00a0Tortilla wraps. Salsa. Chili powder. Lime juice. Steak. \u00a0Red bell peppers and more. I got them all. I whipped out my brand new measuring cups, the ones I bought about a year ago. They&#8217;re so pretty! I measured everything according to the recipe. I even wore my apron!<\/p>\n<p>He wanted to know what I was cooking, but I refused to tell. The cheese threw him off. He did not know what I was cooking, but he was pretty sure it was not egusi soup. When I was done cooking, I subjected him to a <em>taste-and-love session<\/em> &#8211; a session of tasting and loving my experimental food. And he loved it! He licked his fingers and went for a second round (which is not part of the taste-and-love must-obey law), so I take it he really loved it. Shoot, I loved it, too.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Raw-meat-and-veggies.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2086\" title=\"Raw meat and veggies\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Raw-meat-and-veggies.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"615\" height=\"461\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Raw-meat-and-veggies.jpg 615w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Raw-meat-and-veggies-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>The raw meat and veggies &#8230; before they got fried in the non-stick skillet.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/four-type-Mexican-cheese.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2062\" title=\"Four-Type Mexican Cheese\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/four-type-Mexican-cheese.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"615\" height=\"461\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/four-type-Mexican-cheese.jpg 615w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/four-type-Mexican-cheese-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>The four-type Mexican cheese. I&#8217;m too tired to give you the details on the cheese.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Salsa.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2063\" title=\"Salsa\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Salsa.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"615\" height=\"461\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Salsa.jpg 615w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Salsa-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Salsa: onions, red bell peppers, etc.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Red-bell-peppers.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2064\" title=\"Red Bell Peppers\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Red-bell-peppers.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"615\" height=\"461\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Red-bell-peppers.jpg 615w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Red-bell-peppers-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Red bell peppers<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/The-steak.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2066\" title=\"The Steak\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/The-steak.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"615\" height=\"461\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/The-steak.jpg 615w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/The-steak-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>The steak, after it got fried<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Before-it-was-closed.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2067\" title=\"Before the fajita was closed\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Before-it-was-closed.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"615\" height=\"461\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Before-it-was-closed.jpg 615w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Before-it-was-closed-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>The fajita before it got wrapped<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Voila-...-the-half-eaten-fajita.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2068\" title=\"Voila! The half-eaten fajita\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Voila-...-the-half-eaten-fajita.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"615\" height=\"461\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Voila-...-the-half-eaten-fajita.jpg 615w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Voila-...-the-half-eaten-fajita-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>The fajita emerges. Yummy!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><p style=\"text-align: left;\">You don&#8217;t have to admit it, but I am positive that my husband is one heck of a lucky man.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>My ability to make fajitas while taking pictures of it &#8230; and while mentally preparing this post &#8230; I mean, what else could he possibly want? What else could a man possibly want? Don&#8217;t answer that. \u00a0If you know who he is, please tell him that I said he is truly blessed and highly favored. And no, I do not need his opinion on the issue &#8211; unless it echoes my thoughts.<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> My DSL-R camera has gone to DSL-R heaven, so manage these pictures &#8230; straight from my Crackberry. I&#8217;m gonna post about that later by the way &#8211; I mean the Crackberry.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I did my first post on the preparation for marriage, I did not intend to follow it up with two more posts, neither did I literally mean that I was preparing for marriage. It was my mother&#8217;s sentiments toward my inability to cook bitter leaf soup that inspired the name of the post. 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