{"id":14631,"date":"2019-01-14T00:01:03","date_gmt":"2019-01-14T05:01:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/verastic.com\/?p=14631"},"modified":"2019-01-12T20:16:52","modified_gmt":"2019-01-13T01:16:52","slug":"happy-birthday-to-a-remarkable-woman-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/personal\/happy-birthday-to-a-remarkable-woman-me.html","title":{"rendered":"Happy Birthday To A Remarkable Woman (Me!!!)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I started writing this post on Friday. I actually wrote the entire thing, but when I got to the end, it just did not feel authentic. It felt like I was writing to fit a particular theme box that I had previously created and thought of as being perfect. But forget that. Right now, I’m freestyling in my writing, unsure of where this will end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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It’s my birthday today, and wow, I’m so proud of myself! I went back and read the love letter I wrote to myself last year<\/a><\/strong>, and as I read the words, all I wanted to do was give last year’s Vera a hug and a kiss because she deserved it. Last year’s Vera was hurting on her birthday. I was so thankful for the gift of life, but I was hurting, y’ll!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This year, however, I am in a completely different place. I am not yet where I want to be, but God, I am not where I used to be. It’s amazing what a difference a year makes. God has been working on me gradually, and it was so gradual that I did not even always notice it as it was happening. But then, every now and then, I glance at myself and I love what I see.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recently, I was on a conference call with my girls, Funmie and Uju, and I don’t remember what I said about myself, but Funmie’s response was, “Na <\/strong><\/em>wa<\/strong><\/em><\/g> for this your new arrogance and cockiness oh!”<\/strong><\/em> Uju and I burst out laughing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Contrary to what Funmie thinks, I am not now cocky and arrogant – except when absolutely needed – but my self-confidence has definitely shot up. I have morphed into the kind of woman I admire and dream of becoming. I do not have the words to quantify what I have become, but I just know that I love it, and I am grateful for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I mentioned in my New Year post<\/a><\/strong> that 2018 was a year of renewal and rejuvenation and rebirth and rediscovery, and I was not lying at all. I rediscovered myself, and I discovered a part of me that I did not even know existed. Turns out that I am pretty fucking amazing. And phenomenal. And remarkable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of the struggles I had in my previous age (aka in 2018) was trying to keep it all together when everything was falling apart. But the moment I learned to let go, it was so much easier. I was okay with not writing as much, and I was okay with missing events, and I was okay with not responding to some emails and texts. I told myself that I cannot come and die jare<\/g>. So instead, I lived. And no matter what was going on beside me, I had the kind of peace my bible talks about<\/a><\/strong>, the kind that surpasses all understanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I grew up a lot in my last age, but I am not done growing. I am so excited about where God is taking me in this new age, and I am thankful to you for still being here and growing with me. WE<\/g> have come a long way!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, yes, happy birthday to a remarkable woman — and her internet-based besties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P.S. <\/strong>Pictures were taken by Eli3 Photography<\/a><\/strong>, and makeup was done by Edan Makeup<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

P.P.S.<\/strong> I’m really feeling myself though. Can you tell?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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