{"id":13683,"date":"2017-08-07T03:13:58","date_gmt":"2017-08-07T07:13:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/verastic.com\/?p=13683"},"modified":"2017-08-06T20:44:06","modified_gmt":"2017-08-07T00:44:06","slug":"woman-says-wives-let-side-chicks-service-husbands-ive-got-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/social\/woman-says-wives-let-side-chicks-service-husbands-ive-got-questions.html","title":{"rendered":"This Woman Says Wives Should Let Side Chicks Service Their Husbands (And I&#8217;ve Got Questions!)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Is it just me or has there been a recent influx in the number of posts\/videos of people giving women all kinds of advice about what men can and cannot do? For example, I read a long rant the other day (from a woman oh!) saying that women who post fondly about their husbands on social media are basically to be blamed for their husband&#8217;s cheating because writing about their husbands made them (the husbands) appealing to other women. And then today, there&#8217;s this one.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fvera.ezimora%2Fvideos%2F658569150999262%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=560\" width=\"560\" height=\"308\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Usually, when I hear something like this, I get really enraged. The reason I get so angry is that I&#8217;m so tired of men and women alike acting as if a grown adult man is incapable of controlling what vagina his penis enters. This is ridiculous. Yes, men cheat. And so do women. But I digress. Today&#8217;s video isn&#8217;t actually about cheating; it&#8217;s about the duties of a married woman.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Like I said, I usually get very angry at messages like this, but with this video, I laughed hysterically. I have watched this video over and over and I cannot stop laughing. The combination of her choice of words and her cute accent and what seems like genuine exhaustion and frustration on her part &#8230; I am seriously amused.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-13685\" src=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Should-Wives-Enlist-The-Services-Of-Side-Chicks.jpeg\" alt=\"Should husbands have side chicks? Should wives provide side chicks for their husbands when they feel too busy to provide them with sex?\" width=\"5616\" height=\"3744\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Should-Wives-Enlist-The-Services-Of-Side-Chicks.jpeg 5616w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Should-Wives-Enlist-The-Services-Of-Side-Chicks-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Should-Wives-Enlist-The-Services-Of-Side-Chicks-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/verastic.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Should-Wives-Enlist-The-Services-Of-Side-Chicks-1024x683.jpeg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 5616px) 100vw, 5616px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She used words like &#8220;marginalizing&#8221; and &#8220;outsource&#8221; and &#8220;servicing&#8221; to drive her point home. In her opinion, by the time a woman is married with kids and has a career, coming home to service a man is just too much work. But if the woman outsources to the side chick, she (the wife) will come home to a happy man. And while we&#8217;re talking about side chicks, she also wants the society to stop marginalizing side chicks (because the work they do is very important, I suppose).<\/p>\n<p>I personally think it&#8217;s crazy for any woman to be okay with her husband&nbsp;having this arrangement, but for the sake of argument, let&#8217;s assume that wives are generally okay with outsourcing the fucking of their&nbsp;husbands to&nbsp;side chicks (who I&#8217;m sure are well certified and accredited in their field of work). Still, I&#8217;ve got questions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1.<\/strong> &nbsp;If the woman is too tired to have sex because of motherhood and her career, then why isn&#8217;t the man tired, too? Doesn&#8217;t he also have kids and a career?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>2,<\/strong> &nbsp;Will the wife also be getting serviced by a side dude?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>3.<\/strong> &nbsp; Who will pay this side chick? I&#8217;m assuming this is a career for her. So who pays? Husband or wife?<\/p>\n<p>I was going to ask if there are women out there who agree that the job of servicing their husbands should be outsourced, but I think the answer is a resounding yes.<\/p>\n<p>But how do you feel about this, Sweet Potatoes? I&#8217;m particularly curious about how the men feel. If your wife offered you this service, would you accept it? Be honest. You can comment anonymously and speak your truth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it just me or has there been a recent influx in the number of posts\/videos of people giving women all kinds of advice about what men can and cannot do? 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