There are men who are married, but apparently don’t know they are married. Or maybe they know, but they don’t really care that they are married. I think it’s the latter. I’m sure that everyone and their mama has heard about cheating married men. Everyone probably knows at least one cheating married man. I don’t know if every woman has been offered the position of mistress in the life of a married man.
A little while ago, I was offered that position. A very young married man offered me the position of mistress in his life. But he was kind enough to say that I should not worry about his wife because I have him (and I guess she doesn’t?), that he would let me get married when I’m ready to, and that while he’s not rich, he would still take care of me.
I was shocked. It was not the first time I was approached by a married man. It was, however, the first time that a married man clearly stated his marital status and his intentions for me. To further convince me, he told me that no man can stay with one woman because men are naturally polygamous. If God cannot give me a faithful man, then I’d rather be single for the rest of my life. That’s what I told him – among other things. I still stand by it.
That said, the Verastically Speakin’ Talk Radio resumes its regular schedule this Saturday. Are you excited? It appears I’m a bit nervous. Or maybe just overly excited. I even forgot to put up the weekly poll. Tune in this Saturday at 10am U.S. Eastern (3pm Nigerian Time) to listen to us live. Mustapha will be bringing his A-game on as my honorable co-host. You don’t want to miss this.
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Nice one! The truth is they don't really care that they are married. I like your stand Vera and I'm glad the talk radio is back.
This should be an interesting one. As for your wannabe keeper, LWKMD.
Looking forward to your show..it's been way too long.
lol how about this " I am a RESPONSIBLE man, and do not believe in hide and seek. you would know my wife, and my wife would know you. I would introduce you as my girl friend,take care of you and would never deny you. All you have to do is to be FAITHFUL to me" … like really faithful??? why can he have us both, and i cant have an extra "boy toy" by the side???? lol infidelity now translates to being responsible, as far as both party knows??? SMH… Looking fwd to the show!!!
What part of his marriage vows did this yeye philanderer not understand????????????????
solution to wife: chops his d**k off. end of story. polygamous ko, polyandorous ni.
*fuming*
veraaaaaaa
it has been forever since i visited your blog. how are u?
nawa for these type of men o..may we not married such men…
I love your resolve…and best believe it…u will get your desire…looking forward to the show on saturday…
Strange… is what I'd like to say.
Gosh I know many men like this…actually a particular sumburri comes to mind…but not a word!
First time huh? It's always suprising, I've been offered the mistress "position" so many times by old, young, white, black, hispanic, asian, and other so many times that I'm beginning to wonder if I have lojack for bastards…count yourself lucky that atleast this time he was young, reasonably attractive (I HOPE) and honest, the worst is when your dating somebody for a few months, have met his friends and some of his family (TRUE STORY) and when someone let it's slip that he's married he actually has the nerve to get mad at THEM oh and the old skevy ones just hurt a girls pride like crazy