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		By: Mrs emily		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2014 01:19:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Non, mon amour je ne peux pas envoyer ce soir parce que je n&#039;ai pas de photo de mon téléphone maintenant et je suis sur mes vêtements de nuit déjà celui que j&#039;utilise dans skype. Il ne sera pas facile pour moi maintenant. S&#039;il vous plaît mon amour permet de laisser pour demain. Et je vous remercie de votre compréhension pour envoyer € 700. 300 pour Dr Okosu et 400 pour moi. Merci beaucoup mon amour doux &quot;étreintes&quot; Vous êtes un chouchou. Je t&#039;aime Jérôme et je vais toujours aimer et vous respecter. mmwwaahh]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Non, mon amour je ne peux pas envoyer ce soir parce que je n&#8217;ai pas de photo de mon téléphone maintenant et je suis sur mes vêtements de nuit déjà celui que j&#8217;utilise dans skype. Il ne sera pas facile pour moi maintenant. S&#8217;il vous plaît mon amour permet de laisser pour demain. Et je vous remercie de votre compréhension pour envoyer € 700. 300 pour Dr Okosu et 400 pour moi. Merci beaucoup mon amour doux &#8220;étreintes&#8221; Vous êtes un chouchou. Je t&#8217;aime Jérôme et je vais toujours aimer et vous respecter. mmwwaahh</p>
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		By: Funmie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 22:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[woow.. this is serious.

should you cheat on your husband, the obvious and true answer is NOOOOO.

17 years tho? thats a lonnnnngggg time to have feelings for someone without &quot;verbalizing&quot; it. John is probabaly not worth it... worth you. some people are just really better as friends. 

I think people should endeavour to be less judgemental.... i know i tend to jump into conclusions based on my own point of view, but i am working on that..... Ann has only asked a question, she didnt say she slept with the guy, well at least not yet... lol

Dear Ann, DO NOT sleep with John ooo... abeg.

@Uche... i am in a long distance relationship too... i&#039;m sure it has its negatives, just as the &quot;regular&quot; relationship. LDRs are way more complicated tho, i agree. But they are not totally bad as you stated.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>woow.. this is serious.</p>
<p>should you cheat on your husband, the obvious and true answer is NOOOOO.</p>
<p>17 years tho? thats a lonnnnngggg time to have feelings for someone without &#8220;verbalizing&#8221; it. John is probabaly not worth it&#8230; worth you. some people are just really better as friends. </p>
<p>I think people should endeavour to be less judgemental&#8230;. i know i tend to jump into conclusions based on my own point of view, but i am working on that&#8230;.. Ann has only asked a question, she didnt say she slept with the guy, well at least not yet&#8230; lol</p>
<p>Dear Ann, DO NOT sleep with John ooo&#8230; abeg.</p>
<p>@Uche&#8230; i am in a long distance relationship too&#8230; i&#8217;m sure it has its negatives, just as the &#8220;regular&#8221; relationship. LDRs are way more complicated tho, i agree. But they are not totally bad as you stated.</p>
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		By: toyin olaleye		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 17:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://verastic.com/site/social/dear-vera-cheat-husband.html#comment-40109&quot;&gt;Uche&lt;/a&gt;.

@Uche ...There&#039;s nothing really wrong with long distance relationships. I&#039;m in one right now going on three years ..and yes I can tell u in the whole of Baltimore..I havent found a guy just like my boyfiriend..

Really though? People are now asking these types of questions though? I dont know you probably never really loved the guy. you&#039;ll meet lots of guys like the one who&#039;s currently making you think of cheating..it&#039;s up to you to be strong and committed to the person you married]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://verastic.com/site/social/dear-vera-cheat-husband.html#comment-40109">Uche</a>.</p>
<p>@Uche &#8230;There&#8217;s nothing really wrong with long distance relationships. I&#8217;m in one right now going on three years ..and yes I can tell u in the whole of Baltimore..I havent found a guy just like my boyfiriend..</p>
<p>Really though? People are now asking these types of questions though? I dont know you probably never really loved the guy. you&#8217;ll meet lots of guys like the one who&#8217;s currently making you think of cheating..it&#8217;s up to you to be strong and committed to the person you married</p>
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		By: Chizzy		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 15:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://verastic.com/site/social/dear-vera-cheat-husband.html#comment-40098&quot;&gt;Elean John&lt;/a&gt;.

*Tell John...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://verastic.com/site/social/dear-vera-cheat-husband.html#comment-40098">Elean John</a>.</p>
<p>*Tell John&#8230;</p>
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		By: Uche		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 13:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The whole Naija long distance thingy just amazes me mahn. You mean to tell me that in the whole USofA, you couldn&#039;t find just one guy for you? SMH!!! As a guy, I advise you to do you. Your husband in Nigeria is 98% not faithful to you, abeg do you. 

Your first mistake, marrying in Naija. Second, you are not a fun person ( U probably spend your time in your Naija church and never goes out). 

My advise, go and fun with John jare, your husband is having fun with Nike as we speak...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The whole Naija long distance thingy just amazes me mahn. You mean to tell me that in the whole USofA, you couldn&#8217;t find just one guy for you? SMH!!! As a guy, I advise you to do you. Your husband in Nigeria is 98% not faithful to you, abeg do you. </p>
<p>Your first mistake, marrying in Naija. Second, you are not a fun person ( U probably spend your time in your Naija church and never goes out). </p>
<p>My advise, go and fun with John jare, your husband is having fun with Nike as we speak&#8230;</p>
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		By: Tope Fabusola		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 13:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://verastic.com/site/social/dear-vera-cheat-husband.html#comment-40106&quot;&gt;Tope Fabusola&lt;/a&gt;.

I am sharing this on my blog though. This is quite a thing! Permission To Cheat, Lol!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://verastic.com/site/social/dear-vera-cheat-husband.html#comment-40106">Tope Fabusola</a>.</p>
<p>I am sharing this on my blog though. This is quite a thing! Permission To Cheat, Lol!</p>
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		By: Tope Fabusola		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 13:19:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://verastic.com/site/social/dear-vera-cheat-husband.html#comment-40105&quot;&gt;Segun Pryme&lt;/a&gt;.

Lol! Vera would never advise such. She is nice, not stupid. Love your comment, Man.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://verastic.com/site/social/dear-vera-cheat-husband.html#comment-40105">Segun Pryme</a>.</p>
<p>Lol! Vera would never advise such. She is nice, not stupid. Love your comment, Man.</p>
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		By: Tope Fabusola		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 12:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[*Smiling* I quite understand our dear Vera is being nice. The thing is, we all make a lot of decisions, and a whole lot are hasty.

If there is something obvious throughout the text, it is how hasty everything is. Even the text is hasty, leaving so many key points untouched.

You met someone in Nigeria during one of your visits, got into a relationsnhip somehow, met twice and decided to marry. And all these happened within the confines of a &quot;couple of years.&quot; I&#039;d say 2, max, but I would not judge.

You got married and, within a year, a person you had an &quot;on-and-off&quot; attraction for came into the scene. You knew him for almost a decade and forgot him during the relationship between your man and you.

Now he is back and you suddenly became more &quot;verbal&quot; with your feelings&quot;. You now question your marriage.

Your Friend thinks it is not serious, but you believe she could not be &quot;more wrong&quot;. For once you are right; This is serious. Can you see what I am seeing?

Haste! Haste! Haste!

Everything from the beginning of the story is hasty. So hasty, it bothers me. No, I am not judging. Wait, we all do this same thing some times.

Here is my advice: The new sex thing you are anticipating is another haste, and trust me, This is not the kind of haste of which you would be able to ask Vera for Advice for when the Consequences come.

You have made mistakes in the past. Time to settle down and make the mistakes right. Please, do not commit another.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*Smiling* I quite understand our dear Vera is being nice. The thing is, we all make a lot of decisions, and a whole lot are hasty.</p>
<p>If there is something obvious throughout the text, it is how hasty everything is. Even the text is hasty, leaving so many key points untouched.</p>
<p>You met someone in Nigeria during one of your visits, got into a relationsnhip somehow, met twice and decided to marry. And all these happened within the confines of a &#8220;couple of years.&#8221; I&#8217;d say 2, max, but I would not judge.</p>
<p>You got married and, within a year, a person you had an &#8220;on-and-off&#8221; attraction for came into the scene. You knew him for almost a decade and forgot him during the relationship between your man and you.</p>
<p>Now he is back and you suddenly became more &#8220;verbal&#8221; with your feelings&#8221;. You now question your marriage.</p>
<p>Your Friend thinks it is not serious, but you believe she could not be &#8220;more wrong&#8221;. For once you are right; This is serious. Can you see what I am seeing?</p>
<p>Haste! Haste! Haste!</p>
<p>Everything from the beginning of the story is hasty. So hasty, it bothers me. No, I am not judging. Wait, we all do this same thing some times.</p>
<p>Here is my advice: The new sex thing you are anticipating is another haste, and trust me, This is not the kind of haste of which you would be able to ask Vera for Advice for when the Consequences come.</p>
<p>You have made mistakes in the past. Time to settle down and make the mistakes right. Please, do not commit another.</p>
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		By: Segun Pryme		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 12:54:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I wonder what the writer expected. Like Vera would be like....&quot;my dear, long distance is not easy, so it&#039;s okay to help yourself as long as your husband doesn&#039;t know....blah blah blah&quot; 

The long distance isn&#039;t really an excuse. From what you wrote, the relationship had always been that way. If you considered all that and still went ahead with the marriage, then you might as well remain faithful. 

A cheating spouse would find a way to cheat regardless of where the significant other is located.  That means even if your husband is physically with you, the way you feel about John wouldn&#039;t necessarily change unless you deal with it. 

If you&#039;ve made up to mind not to cheat, I&#039;d suggest you tell your husband about this guy (you don&#039;t have to go into the full details about how you feel towards him). I think that&#039;d be a good way to keep you accountable.

Nice topic Vera. Your response was point as well :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder what the writer expected. Like Vera would be like&#8230;.&#8221;my dear, long distance is not easy, so it&#8217;s okay to help yourself as long as your husband doesn&#8217;t know&#8230;.blah blah blah&#8221; </p>
<p>The long distance isn&#8217;t really an excuse. From what you wrote, the relationship had always been that way. If you considered all that and still went ahead with the marriage, then you might as well remain faithful. </p>
<p>A cheating spouse would find a way to cheat regardless of where the significant other is located.  That means even if your husband is physically with you, the way you feel about John wouldn&#8217;t necessarily change unless you deal with it. </p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve made up to mind not to cheat, I&#8217;d suggest you tell your husband about this guy (you don&#8217;t have to go into the full details about how you feel towards him). I think that&#8217;d be a good way to keep you accountable.</p>
<p>Nice topic Vera. Your response was point as well 🙂</p>
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		By: Pendo		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 10:10:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Na wa oh! People now ask for permission to cheat. Dear Ann it doesn&#039;t matter what we tell you to do or not do on here because you will go right ahead and do what YOU think is right because ultimately the final decision lies with you.  So my question to you is this do you or don&#039;t you want to cheat on your husband? Answer that and then take it from there...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Na wa oh! People now ask for permission to cheat. Dear Ann it doesn&#8217;t matter what we tell you to do or not do on here because you will go right ahead and do what YOU think is right because ultimately the final decision lies with you.  So my question to you is this do you or don&#8217;t you want to cheat on your husband? Answer that and then take it from there&#8230;</p>
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