Dear Vera & Co, I really like the idea of your Midnight Bluez series and I wonder why you didn't start sooner. I've been coming back for a second installment since then. I didn't want to be the next installment because of the similar topics of oral sex, but mine is a different story. I'm 32 years old and have been married for almost three years. Before I got married, I had dated a few men but was intimate with only one, the one that took my virginity when I was 23. I never gave oral Read More
Archives for April 2012
Chigul For Verastic … AKA V-Gul
I first heard of Chigul last year ... or was it two years ago? At that time, she had not ballooned into the popular jingo that she is now. By the way, I learned the term "popular jingo" after I already left Nigeria. Never, ever heard of it in Nigeria. It was when I was voted for the Popular Jingo category in Nigerian Blog Awards that I first heard of it and then proceeded to do my research. But I digress. Read More
Do Men Really, Really Like Bald Eagles?
Watching Showtime's original series, Californication the other day, Hank Moody, the main character made a point about pubic hair that I had never really thought about. I know I asked you about [Igbo] men and chest hairs on women, but this time, I want to know about men and pubic [vaginal] hair. More so, the lack of it. The general consensus in Women Land is that men do not like pubic hair on women. But how true is this? Read More
Grace – Ucee Black’s New Single [Listen & Download]
UCEE BLACK releases 'GRACE' , the latest single from the talented 'Come for you' crooner. In this classic thanksgiving tune, he combines the best of afro flair, sweet vocal melody, and his signature lyrical strength to deliver a guaranteed heartwarming groovy hit. With his previous singles and video currently enjoying good airplay across Nigeria and beyond, the talented 'Grace Son' certainly has reason to be thankful to God. Read More
Top 12 Reasons Why Igbos And Yorubas Should Not Marry

Whether you are aware of it or not, many inter-tribal relationships have died an untimely death because of the tribal differences between the couple. Parents, elders, and friends have rained down fire and brimstone to see to it that this sacrilegious union does not get to the altar. The strong couples come out of it beaten, bruised, but alive nonetheless. The weaker ones --- well, they inspire me to write this. The most popular union seems to be the one between the Igbos and the Yorubas. Read More
