There Are Still 12 Top Reasons Why Igbos And Yorubas Should Not Marry

Couples who are NOT the people I'm talking about (but who look good on my blog)

A year ago, I put up a post about the top 12 reasons why Igbos and Yorubas should not marry. One year later, the post is still getting comments from all kinds of people. Some people get the sarcasm, some people laugh, some other get angry, and some people just give me whatever insult they think is appropriate. Read and enjoy. Original post (and entertaining comments) here. ____________________________________________________________________________________   Whether you are aware of it or not, many inter-tribal relationships {Read More}

Ladies, Let’s Talk About Anti Aging Creams

Anti Aging Cream

It’s quite unfortunate all the things that we (women) have to think about and deal with. Just like men don’t think as much about their waist line, they also barely think about anti aging remedies. In fact, the likes of George Clooney and Denzel Washington are celebrated for being distinguished. Not old. Distinguished. But I have never heard the likes of Meryl Streep and Betty White described as distinguished. They’re just old. Or older. So my friend, Uju (yes, the {Read More}

How To Know He’s A Player – Part 2

Player vs Non Player

I first told you about a sure, no-fail way of how to know he’s a player. By the way, that post sparked a debate at home as one of my beereeful readers commented and said that by virtue of Igwe putting his phone down, he’s definitely a player. Igwe in turn accused me of being a player, too because I also (allegedly) put my phone down (when it’s not night). I still have no idea what he was talking about. {Read More}

How To Know He’s A Player

Face Up or Face Down Phone

I stumbled upon an article the other day, and I now cannot remember where. But the article listed a bunch of ways that you know he’s a player. Some of them were pretty cut and dry, but there was one that stood out to me. It’s definitely how to know he’s a player. It’s all in the phone. One way – according to this article – to know that he’s a player is by watching the way he keeps his {Read More}

Ladies, How Often Do You Wash Your Braids?

My wet braids, not that you can tell they are wet.

You know as Black women, there is so much that we can do to our hair. The options are almost limitless.  A lot of people don’t know it, but my hair is natural now. I have not had a perm in it for a while now, maybe almost a year? I don’t know the date exactly. I went natural because I started wearing weaves often, and I would perm my hair and put a weave in two days later, which {Read More}

10 Types Of Men Who Won’t Marry You

Group of men

Usually, when a relationship is over, that’s when you look back objectively and face reality. But most times, we can know these things before the relationship even starts. I culled this from Huffington Post, and I think it’s spot on! It’s a list of 10 men who will NOT marry you (and who, in my opinion, you we should not want to marry anyway). It was written by Samantha Daniels, a professional match maker and relationship expert. _______________________________________________________________________ 1.  Mr. {Read More}

Ladies, How Long Do You Wear Your Heels?

Sarah Jessica Parker

I don’t know about you, but the first time I heard about Manolo Blahnik was on Sex and the City, where the lead character, Carrie Bradshaw (Sarah Jessica Parker) was a writer and a fashionista who was always in heels – Manolo Blahnik, to be precise. Well, it turns out that all those times she was wearing heels, it wasn’t just an act. I mean, when the camera went off, she did not take the shoes off (as I would {Read More}

Wife + Husband + Wife’s Lover = One Big Happy Family!

L-R: Paul Butzki (husband), Maria Butzki (wife), and Peter Gruman (lover)

I’m gonna keep this short and sweet. Here’s the story: Maria Butzki, mother of two girls (16 and 12) left her husband, Paul Butzki for her lover, Peter Gruman. But she did not know that she would miss her husband so much, and at the same time, she did not want to leave her lover. Somehow, the two men became friends, and Maria got the bright idea to move them both into the same house. Isn’t that wonderful? So now, {Read More}

Sex With A Robot Can Give You Orgasms? Oh, And Extend Your Life, Too

Who wants a robot lover?

I know that all kinds of crazy things happen in this world, and in spite of how many crazy things I have read and written about, I never really stop being shocked. So here comes the robot sex thing: according to a study, women who have longer orgasms tend to live longer. This isn’t just about how many orgasms a woman has, but also about how long they last. The longer, the better. Apparently, “[Sexbots will] be more desirable, patient, {Read More}

How Short Is Too Short For Women Over 30?

Mini Skirt 2

Sometime last year – can’t believe I’m referring to 2012 as last year – Uzo and I got to talking about clothes, and she mentioned to me that when a woman gets to a certain age, she cannot – should not – wear certain clothes. And of course, this makes sense. Can’t imagine my grandma in short shorts. We got to the issue of skirts because I love skirts. And most of the ones I have are short, though not {Read More}