Remember That Bastard Married Guy I Blogged About?

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If you have no idea what bastard married guy I’m talking about, it’s okay. Rest easy, I’ve got this covered. The post is about Omoba, a married man with a standard bastard behavior who had the balls to say he dreamt of me and wanted to know what I thought about it. Read it HERE. The post was written in 2011. So why am I bringing this up now? Because sometime last week, I received an e-mail from a girl {Read More}

Of Gay People, Of GEJ, And Of Many More …

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The Verastic Show will be back tomorrow with a vengeance and an anger that will be unprecedented and thought-provoking. Maybe even maddening. That’s the plan anyway. The [live] show has been off-air since December and is finally coming back tomorrow. There is sooooo much to talk about, and the possibilities are endless. Among the many issues I am going to tackle are homosexuality in the Nigerian community – home and abroad, love, sex, marriage, money, government, provocation, jealousy, death, God, {Read More}

The White House Might Be On The Verastic Show Tomorrow

Keyword: Might Two days ago, I put up a write up about the fiscal cliff and how it will impact Africans, if we do fall off it. I was – still am – quite disappointed about how little we (Africans) know about the fiscal cliff, considering that it’s all everyone has been talking about. You do not have to be a political aspirant or junkie to know that there is a fiscal cliff ahead of us, and that December 31st {Read More}

Can Women Have It All?

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As women, our first problem is being women. Being a woman is a preexisting condition that is a gateway to other conditions. Everything we do or want to do is related to us being women. Naturally, men dream of doing big things, like owning companies, like running for office, like being fathers, like being rich and famous, etc. But as women, dreaming of the same things doesn’t go on the same road. Sure, we can want to be like Oprah, {Read More}

Friend Or Foe?

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In my opinion, there is no such thing as a good friend. There is just a friend. Being a friend should automatically mean that you are good. It’s like blood. It’s always red. There’s no need saying red blood. And today, Funmie and I will be talking about friends. This is an issue that we have debated soooo many times, and today, we will be doing it on air. Join us. Listen: www.gidilounge.fm Call in: 1.866.566.4434 Via Skype: Gidilounge Follow {Read More}

To Be Jealous Or Not To Be: That Is The Question

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Jealousy in a relationship is one of those ever-complicated issues. What does it mean for your partner to be jealous? Does it mean severe love and affection? Or does it mean psycho on the loose?  I have heard that a certain level of jealousy is healthy in every relationship, but where does one cross the line between jealousy and possessive, possibly violent even?  As one who has experienced the jealous boyfriend, I can tell you, it is no picnic. This {Read More}

The Sex Toy For Long Distance Lovers … Seriously!

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Just this past Saturday, we discussed long distance relationships on The Verastic Show, and my co-host was Sisi Yemmie who has been in a long distance relationship with her nine-year boyfriend – now fiance. Five out of their nine-year relationship has been long distance. Just like most other episodes of The Verastic Show, people – not me, of course – were able to somehow make the show about sex, asking Sisi Yemmie how she copes without sex and if they’ve {Read More}

You Ratchet!

I saw this video a couple weeks ago, and it got my attention. It’s one of those things you’re laughing at (because it’s funny) and frowning at (because it’s true). You have to know at least one girl that these women men errr people remind you of. Some of the funniest lines … “Girl, let me tell you what I got my Mister-Mister … a baby boy, and it came with a sister …” “Go on beef it up … {Read More}

It’s Me & Ofili Tomorrow … Talking About Love & Money

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I’m going to be speaking with one of my favorite co-hosts, Ofili. You must know about him already. If not, prepare to find out. Ofili is an international motivational speaker and author — and an award winning one at that. Normally, you have to pay to listen to Ofili speak, but I’m bringing him to you on The Verastic Show on Gidilounge Radio. Free of charge! Of course, you are welcome to send me small money via PayPal. Continue to {Read More}

How Many People Have You Slept With?

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