Dear Vera, I’m Married, But I’m Still In Love With My Ex-Husband


Dear Verastic, I'm new to your page but thought maybe some advice from you could help me. I'm still very much in love with my ex-husband and I know that he wants me back too. However I'm married to someone else, I love and care about him and wish only good things for him but since a few weeks after we married I just didn't love him the same. I came from a big family and always wanted children, we talked about it before marriage and he said yes. Now all I get is no or he evades the question. Continue Reading

Wayment! Dwayne Wade Just Had A Baby — And Not With Gabrielle Union?

Gabrielle Union's ring that's making the single ladies forget their size

When I heard the news that Dwayne Wade had put a ring on Gabrielle's finger, I didn't think too much of it because for some reason, I thought they were already engaged. I cannot tell you how many times I saw this famous picture of the ring on Gabrielle's finger on Instagram. Chics were posting the picture talmbout "I love this ring ... I cannot wait for my turn ... My dream ring ..." Haaa! Dream on. I'm yimuing all the way. Dream ring ko. You want to steal it??? Cockroach oh ... lizard oh Continue Reading

Happy Birthday To The Igwe Of Life!

The Igwe himself

It's my Igwe's birthday again. I am so grateful to what God has done between last year's birthday and this birthday. It's only been a year, but so much has changed for him, and I am so proud of him. This year's birthday, however, can afford to be a lot better. Igwe isn't here. He's X thousand miles away from me, all the way in Nigeria. So I got to tell him happy birthday over the phone, and I hated it. Just hated it. Birthdays shouldn't be celebrated virtually. And I am a person who absolutely Continue Reading

Throwback Thursday: These Are A Few Of My Favorite Love-Needs


This week's Throwback Thursday post is from January 2010. I wrote the post because I was going to discuss life lists on The Verastic Show with Just Joxy. However, I included part of my "love list" in the post. I wrote my list after watching an episode of Oprah where she and her guest talked about the importance of writing things down. I have always written things down anyway, but I didn't have a love list - a list of things I wanted in my partner. So I went ahead and created one after Continue Reading

Does Iyanya “Look” Like A Player?

Iyanya!!! Bad guys.

This post is kind of coming in late, I'm sorry. So remember how Iyanya broke Yvonne Nelson's heart by allegedly leaving her for  Tonto? I still don't know if that really happened (I mean the getting together with Tonto part) because there have been so many sides to the story. The part we know to be [mostly] true is that Iyanya broke Yvonne Nelson's heart by cheating on her. I say mostly true because we have not heard Iyanya's side of the story. He probably did it, but ... Yvonne Nelson has Continue Reading

New Couple Alert: Superman, Henry Cavill And Kaley Cuoco

Kaley Cuoco and Henry Cavill

News is filtering through the web waves that our newest Superman, Henry Cavill is dating Big Bang Theory actress, Kaley Cuoco. I think they make a good looking couple, and I'm telling you what I think because I know that Kaley and Henry both care about my opinion. Henry is 30, and Kaley is 27. They've only been a couple for a little bit and they are not even making public appearances yet --- except for this public hike *one brow up* I don't have much to say about them, but I do like her, Continue Reading

Igwe Traveled For Three Months … And I Learned Some Lessons

Long Distance Relationships

So Igwe traveled to Nigeria in March and only came back last week.  I was very anxious about him being away because since we started this journey of ours, we have never been apart. I mean, we've both traveled separately, but not three freaking months. Every time I remembered he was traveling, my heart would literally start beating really fast. The first night he was gone was the hardest. I didn't really know what to do with myself. The house was so quiet, too quiet. It was just me and my Continue Reading

My Love Post From Boorish Male


I promised you a while ago that I would put up a post of the old post Boorish Male (retired blogger) put up about me. It was titled Vera Ezimora, and you can only imagine how I felt when I read it --- which is why I copied and saved it. To be totally honest with you, I am putting this up today because it's an easy post and I cannot activate my brain to think too much right now. I'm still in Tampa mode. I slept most of the day yesterday. I'll be back to normal mode. Promise. So .. here's the Continue Reading