Dear Monica Lewinsky, About You Being Cyber-Bullied … Nah Uh.

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Nah Uh. Nope. No. Net. Nahīṁ.  Mba. Monica Lewinsky who has been silent since the scandal 16 years ago (except her recent feature in Vanity Fair, which of course, I also blogged about). She was at the 30 Under 30 Summit held at Forbes in Philadelphia two days ago giving her first speech, and of all things to talk about, she chose cyber-bullying because according to her, she was Patient Zero, the first victim of cyber-bullying. Let's talk about some of her talking points. 1.  "Sixteen Continue Reading

Dear Vera, Should I Cheat On My Husband?

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I met my husband when I traveled to Nigeria some years ago. We fell in love and dated via telephone and internet. You know how that goes. We dated this way (and saw each other twice during the relationship) before we finally got married in Abuja in August of 2013. Yes, we have been married for less than a year. I started filing for him in January of this year, but I'm still waiting to hear from Immigration. You know how long it takes them to do things. About a week after I submitted the Continue Reading

So, According To Jay, I’m Ruining His Relationship

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Remember the post I put up about how to spot a player? It's the post about how a player puts his phone face-down (instead of face-up) like most people. I put it up in April of last year. Dang. I can't believe it's been almost a year since that post. I remember it like it was just a couple of months ago. Anyway, I received a new comment on it yesterday, which was just entertaining. The comment came from Jay, and according to him, my post is ruining his relationship. Here's his Continue Reading

My Entire Thoughts On Ese Walter And Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo (And Their Alleged Affair)

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The COZA scandal is no longer news, and I rarely blog to give you news anyway. But this scandal is one that keeps on giving. Where is Olivia Pope when you need her? Every time I read an update on this story, I cannot help but wonder, WWOD [What Would Olivia Do?] Be still, Gladiators. Be still. I find it rather interesting that most of the criticism  of this case (whether you're TeamEse or TeamPastor) is that the man in question is a Pastor. What about the fact that the man in question is Continue Reading

Franca E: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo’s Other Mistress [Allegedly]

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I know I haven't blogged about Ese Walter yet, but I have been - still am - following the story closely. I'll blog about it tomorrow. Meanwhile, there are reports of another mistress called, Franca E. I don't know whether or not this report is true, but this is her story. Read it with a pinch of salt because this might just be someone trying to entertain us. But if it is true that a certain Franca E does exist, and that this is really her story, then we need proof! I should state though Continue Reading

Does Iyanya “Look” Like A Player?

Iyanya!!! Bad guys.

This post is kind of coming in late, I'm sorry. So remember how Iyanya broke Yvonne Nelson's heart by allegedly leaving her for  Tonto? I still don't know if that really happened (I mean the getting together with Tonto part) because there have been so many sides to the story. The part we know to be [mostly] true is that Iyanya broke Yvonne Nelson's heart by cheating on her. I say mostly true because we have not heard Iyanya's side of the story. He probably did it, but ... Yvonne Nelson has Continue Reading

How To Know He’s A Player – Part 2

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I first told you about a sure, no-fail way of how to know he's a player. By the way, that post sparked a debate at home as one of my beereeful readers commented and said that by virtue of Igwe putting his phone down, he's definitely a player. Igwe in turn accused me of being a player, too because I also (allegedly) put my phone down (when it's not night). I still have no idea what he was talking about. I think it was that thing men do when they turn things around and try to make you feel like Continue Reading

How To Know He’s A Player

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I stumbled upon an article the other day, and I now cannot remember where. But the article listed a bunch of ways that you know he's a player. Some of them were pretty cut and dry, but there was one that stood out to me. It's definitely how to know he's a player. It's all in the phone. One way - according to this article - to know that he's a player is by watching the way he keeps his phone. Face up? Or face down? Face Up: This is the way everyone leaves their phone because naturally, we Continue Reading

Remember That Bastard Married Guy I Blogged About?

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If you have no idea what bastard married guy I'm talking about, it's okay. Rest easy, I've got this covered. The post is about Omoba, a married man with a standard bastard behavior who had the balls to say he dreamt of me and wanted to know what I thought about it. Read it HERE. The post was written in 2011. So why am I bringing this up now? Because sometime last week, I received an e-mail from a girl called, Seun. I've never met her before, but somehow, she stumbled on my blog, and her Continue Reading

Iyanya Dumps Tonto Dikeh For Tiwa Savage!

Iyanya!!! Bad guys.

Well, technically, that's not completely true. He has not dumped Tonto - yet. But it's definitely coming. By now, I'm sure most of you have heard of Iyanya dumping Yvonne Nelson for Tonto Dikeh. It's really bad when you are dumped - especially when you did not see it coming - but I think the only thing worse than being dumped [by Iyanya] is being dumped by Iyanya ... for Tonto. Like, how the heck does that happen?!?! When Iyanya's "Your Waist" song came out, Igwe couldn't stop laughing. He Continue Reading