I don’t ideally write posts like this one, but I was so mad and so sad that I had to channel my emotions into a new blog post. So for the past couple of days, I have been going back and forth on a campaign for Verastic. The total payout would have been $6,000. At the current exchange rate of N340 per dollar, that would have been over two million naira. I was this close to closing the deal. This close. In fact, I had already calculated all the things I would do with my brand new six thousand dollars. And to butter the offer, it was with a shoe company. Shoessss!!!
We emailed back and forth and eventually, I went to bed. When I woke up yesterday morning, I looked to see if there was an email, but there was none, so I waited. Finally, the email came in, and it was not what I wanted to read. The contract was no longer available. I had read the email on my phone, and after reading it, I held my phone so tight in my hands that if I had super powers, I would have crushed it, and I wanted to scream so badly, but couldn’t because Ada Verastic was sleeping. So instead, I threw my phone on the ground really hard. But I was sure to throw it on carpet oh! I could not be angry and stupid at the same time. Then I called Igwe and cried. And when I got off the phone, I cried some more. I would have probably smashed my laptop, too, if it was not the only one I have.
These are things I did not worry about with my 9 to 5 job. I did not worry if the company won or lost a contract because whatever the outcome, they would have still paid me my salary. Working for myself now, and especially working in a relatively new field, one has to get extra creative. There isn’t a ton of information out there, but that doesn’t mean that it cannot be done. If anything, perhaps, I can be one of the people who provide the information. No? This reminds me oohh, I promised to share blogging tips. Chei.
After sulking in pain and in the life I could have lived with my $6,000, I wiped my face and went right back to work. I sent out pitch emails to several companies and offered my services. I don’t know if they will say yes or no, and I don’t know if I will have to throw my phone on the floor again – on carpet, of course – but I do know that I have to keep going. I have to keep trying. Logically, I know that in life, you will sometimes get a yes and sometimes a no, but I have to admit that getting a no can be an ego-bruiser, a heart breaker, a confidence-killer.
Six thousand dollars is not a lot, I know. But it’s something. It’s six thousand dollars that I could have added to my account and done something with. It’s six thousand dollars that would have made me so confident. Now it’s six thousand dollars that I don’t have. It was never mine, but I still feel like I’ve lost it. And I feel inclined to get it back. But how?
Ironically, it was just two days ago that I re-pitched a company I had previously pitched months ago. When I first pitched them months ago, they said NO, that my blog was not a fit for them. This time, they said yes, but my blog hasn’t changed. When I got the no for the $6000 contract, I did not stop to think about the yes I got the other day because that’s how our minds work, right? We always focus on the negative and forget to count our blessings.
I don’t know if this post is a rant or an inspirational post, or maybe a bit of both. But I do hope that you find some encouragement to know that a no today does not mean it’s over. There can still be a yes tomorrow. It does not matter if the no was to six hundred dollars, or six thousand dollars, or six hundred thousand dollars. But chei, six hundred thousand dollars sha! For all the business owners out there, I throway yansh for everyone of you. Whether you’re a content creator, a mechanic, a designer, a carpenter — I salute you all. Being on your own is not the road of least resistance.
P.S. It just occurred to me that some of you might be reading this post and wondering what the heck else does Vera do apart from blogging? Well, I do a lot more, and if you’ve read my work with me page, you’d have an idea. I’m going to have to dedicate a whole post to it. I’ll be back with that. And if Cam is reading, please leave me alone oh! Don’t come and remind me of all the posts I promised that I haven’t delivered yet. You don’t know my life! You don’t know what I have been through. Ha!
Cam says
Hahahhhaha!
Gentle reminder.
Well, here’s a toast to when you’d keep cashing those checks eventually in their numbers.
Love and Light. xx
Vera Ezimora says
Gbam! Toasting right along with you. Thank you, Cam.
Vongani says
I am still waiting for the libido comeback story Vera.
Vera Ezimora says
Chei. I know oooo! I’m sorry! I’ll put it on my calendar for next week. I’m so sorry.
sisi says
My Verastic, I know just how you feel!!! Being self employed is not easy especially when you are trying to bring in money. I prophesy 100 thsasan dollars to you!
Vera Ezimora says
Lol. Amen!!! I grab it! I collect it! Hiris mine. Thank you, boo. I know that you would definitely understand and be able to relate. God help us both.
Alexandra says
Sorry. That is one of the disadvantages of self-employed. More doors of opportunities will be open for you in Jesus name, and it will be a done deal.
Vera Ezimora says
Amen. Amen. Amen. Thank you, Angel.
Obianuju says
Awwwww Vera. It’s okay, God won’t stop opening doors for you, so don’t worry about the one that closed.
P.S.: I’m still waiting for that online blogging class. I read “pitch this, pitch that” in this article and I’m thinking ahn ahn Vera, God loves a cheerful sharer of knowledge o lol. I see there’s one-to-one sessions, I think I should take that route to harass you…
Vera Ezimora says
Hahaha. Uju, you’re hilarious! Thank you, dear. I know, I know. I have the online class in mind, too, but there is SO much on my plate. I’ll get to it, I promise. Per the cheerful sharer, I agree, and I apologize for not sharing. I need to get on that blogging tip part of my blog. Harassing me, especially via one on one sessions is always welcome 😀
S says
Hi Vera! I’m usually a lurker on your blog, but I just wanted to say keep your chin up and you’ll get them next time!
*slides back to actual 9 – 5 work instead of reading verastic*
-S
Vera Ezimora says
Haha. Thank you, S!! Thank you for coming out of lurk mode to leave me a comment 🙂
I’m looking forward to getting them next time. Thank you! And lol at sliding back to your 9 to 5
Jummy | Good Naija Girl says
I’m sorry to hear that things didn’t work out for this contract but I agree with the others: bigger and better contracts are in your immediate future—God has your back!
When you said $6,000 was not much I stopped in surprise because if I could earn $6,000 per month I’d quit my day job like yesterday. That being said, I cannot wait for the day when you can legit turn your nose up at $6,000 contracts as being beneath you! 🙂
Caterina Efé says
You’ve inspired me, being a creative is quite a lonesome and unpredictable path. I can imagine it must have been pretty painful to have the contract fall through. I pray what you’ve lost with $6,000 you will gain with $6M IJN 🙏🏾💃🏾😊.
Daniella says
I love your blog ma! Just started blogging seriously this year and I don’t know why ı never started years ago. I learn a lot from your posts! Could you do a post about successfully pitching to brands especially as a micro blogger. Thank you !
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Vera Ezimora says
Daniella, thank you so much! And congratulations on starting a blog. It’s a rewarding journey. I’m glad you learned a lot, and I will definitely work on the pitching brands post.