Do you remember your very first thong? I remember mine very clearly. I don’t remember where I bought it from, but it was purple, and it was made of lace. I was about 18 0r 19, so my mom didn’t know of the thong. I don’t know what your mom was/is like, but my mom would have never approved of me owning a thong at that age. It was my one and only thong, so I loved it – as you can imagine. It was during this time that I learned – thanks to my friends – that I had a little booty behind me, so I was very into fitted skirts, and with fitted skirts, you don’t want any panty lines. So yes, my purple thong got worn a lot.
The lace thong looked something like this.
Then there was that one weekend that I spent at my aunt’s house. At the time, my aunt was a member of Deeper Life Bible Church, and you know they don’t play over there. I was never, ever a fan of Deeper Life, not because I didn’t think they were a genuine church, but because I didn’t understand the whole not wearing pants, or jewelry, or makeup, etc. I was – still am – a girly girl, so if you’re going to tell me not to “prettyfy” myself, you better show me a clear and direct verse in the bible that says so. No such verse exists. I digress sha.
So, I spent the weekend in my aunt’s house, and you know I always wash my underwear in the morning, before I take a shower. One morning, I did as usual and washed my underwear before taking a shower, and I hung it in my room. By the next day, the underwear was gone. I asked who took my underwear and my aunt told me it was her. She put it in the trash because thongs were evil. Aaaahhhhhh!!!!!!
I was so angry. I loved that thong, and it loved me back. I didn’t think it was evil. I still don’t think it was evil. Maybe at 18 or 19, I shouldn’t have been wearing a thong? I don’t know how I feel exactly. But I know that I was so mad at my aunt that I gave her an attitude for a while. Keep in mind that at this time, I wasn’t working, so I didn’t have money, except for the little pocket money I’d get here and there from my mommy. Buying a new thong was just not in my budget.
Ironically, however, now that I am older and I have the money and the “permission” to wear said thongs, I barely wear them. I still have quite a number of them, and I even have a couple that I am yet to wear, but I don’t buy them anymore. I have decided that regular underwear feels a lot better. It’s just too much trouble to wear thongs. Like who feels more comfortable with a thin piece of cloth (or string in my case) nesting between their butt cheek. It’s unnatural (for me anyway). So now, I proudly wear normal underwear most times. I admit though, if I do wear a really fitted skirt or pair of pants, I’ll wear a thong again. Panty lines just take away from the otherwise awesomeness.
P.S. Although I have called my purple lace underwear a thong, it was actually a t-string. You know the one that looks like a T at the back and is as thick thin as a rubber band.
You are funny Vera, unfortunately am not allowed to comment freely except I like purple too..lol.
However from a man’s view the regular underwear much more better looking and more appealing to us..
The thong is just loud without the same effect as a regular underwear, equally not defining a confident lady, well debateable.
Feel free to throw it away now…loool
Men don’t like thongs? Whattttt! When did this happen? Well, whether you people like it or not sha, I will not be wearing it (unless I have to because of my clothes).
I have thick thighs and some large “package”, let’s put it in this way. I always suffered to find comfortable underpants, the elastic of the briefs always give me a roasted groin, and the boxers seems too tight in my legs. I have tried several sizes and brands, if I buy oversize boxes feels better on the legs, but the package is all lose and I have to adjust every 30 second. Once I ordered a package of male thongs as a curiosity, cause the idea of wearing a thong was always a no no for a man like me. Even the male thongs weren’t great, elastic and the groin area was lose too. I found going commando the most comfortable for a while, but still can’t go commando, usually at home I go. One day, going through the woman’s section of a store I saw these Calvin Klein women’s thong and they look very basic, black, with a white waistband, nothing shiny or sparkling, nothing feminine at all. I bought one, medium size. Wow, they did the work well, they lifted my package cause it is tight at the front, not the saggy types on the male thong, so my package didn’t rub between my legs when I walk, or go around the house or everywhere, I did not need to adjust them at all cause they are already in the proper place. I could not believe I found the perfect underwear for myself in female section. Here’s my thought about it, I can’t still wear them comfortably in my mind. First, even having male versions, a thong undergarment for men still not 100% acceptable in society, not in my mind either, I always feel it’s wrong, not a man thing, my buddies can’t even dream I am wearing a thong. I did not try them because I want to look sexy or a fetiche, or crossdressing whatever, cause I think it looks horrible and not manly at all, if I was a woman I would not like to see a man in thongs. The wedgie effect is present, but we I got used to it, and it is not bad at all, not as comfortable like my boxers in this matter. I am aware of them all the time, I don’t know if this feeling will disappear. Maybe someone can help with this matter. The CK are very low waist so no one can see them, but I always feel I am doing something wrong, I don’t have a girlfriend right now, but I would not tell a girlfriend if I have one, and if I have one, I will stop wearing them. The only reason I wear them, it’s the comfort in my groin area, I don’t need to adjust my package not even once. I understand women like to wear them to look sexy, adult, their man like them or to avoid the panty lines, but for me is just the support they give to my package lifting it away from my legs, that’s all. Not even the male version I can’t get that. I don’t look in the mirror or anything, and actually i think it look awful, and I don’t have hair or anything in my butt area, just doesn’t not look right. I hope society will grow up more in this matter and more guys with the same problem I have will start wearing them. In the end, it’s just fabric
Just adding to my comment. I imagine my problem is similar with women with large breast and wide chest, they need something with more support, look how bodies have zillion of shapes, but we only get a few shapes of underwear
I completely agree, Michael. It shouldn’t be one-size-fits-all because one size doesn’t fit all.
Absolutely, Vera! We should all few comfortable regardless the style.