Should A Wife Confront Her Husband’s Ex Over BBM Messages? Discuss.

Blackberry Dude

This is an issue that I have been tackling on Twitter with one of my followers. Well, I think she’s a follower, not entirely sure. I’m too lazy to find the original tweet, so I’m going to paraphrase the question. Question: Should a wife add her husband’s ex on her BBM to tell her to stop sending BBM messages to him late at night? In case you’re confused, the question is should a wife confront her husband’s ex because she’s sending him messages late at night? These messages include Happy Continue Reading

Attention, Single People! What Do You Do???

Single Black Female

This question isn't actually for only single people. It's for everyone who is single right now, or used to be single at some point. Meaning, it's for EVERYONE. So, as you read this, please kindly respond. It's a question from a fellow reader of Verastic, and it's posted below: "Can you please put up a post asking your readers what their regular day is like. I'm a single female, I live alone (no Igwe). I go to work, get back, watch TV and wonder what other people are doing with their time. Continue Reading

Midnight Bluez: I Don’t Know How To Go Down On Him

Dear Vera & Co, I really like the idea of your Midnight Bluez series and I wonder why you didn't start sooner. I've been coming back for a second installment since then. I didn't want to be the next installment because of the similar topics of oral sex, but mine is a different story. I'm 32 years old and have been married for almost three years. Before I got married, I had dated a few men but was intimate with only one, the one that took my virginity when I was 23. I never gave oral Continue Reading

On The Eve Of Midnight Bluez

I'm very, very excited. In less than 24 hours, I will officially start my Midnight Bluez series. Why is this such a big deal? Well, it's something I've always wanted to do. And as funny as we may think some of the issues are, truth is, these issues are keeping someone up at night.  So I've got a few clues for you after the break. Continue Reading