What Do AfroCandy And Porn Have In Common?

AfroCandy in one of her scenes

Nothing. And that’s why this porn movie is all kinds of confusing. We first met AfroCandy in 2010 when she released her song, Ikebe Na Money. Back then, we thought it was the most ridiculous thing ever. If only we knew what was coming next. Now in hindsight, I guess it shouldn’t be too surprising because she was almost naked in the music video anyway. AfroCandy’s new movie is called Destructive Instinct 3 & 4. I’m assuming that Destructive Instinct {Read More}

How To Know He’s A Player – Part 2

Player vs Non Player

I first told you about a sure, no-fail way of how to know he’s a player. By the way, that post sparked a debate at home as one of my beereeful readers commented and said that by virtue of Igwe putting his phone down, he’s definitely a player. Igwe in turn accused me of being a player, too because I also (allegedly) put my phone down (when it’s not night). I still have no idea what he was talking about. {Read More}

Dear Vera, My Fiancee Doesn’t Love Me

Dear Vera

Ideally, love shouldn’t be this difficult and complicated. There should be two people who are in love and marry each other to live happily ever after. But then, sometimes, this is the reality. I’ve given my opinion at the end of this post. When you are done reading, please give the reader your opinion, too. “Dear Vera. I don’t know what exactly I want but I believe your advice will work. Am in a relationship recently turned sour. We had {Read More}

WARNING: Do NOT Come For Rihanna

Rihanna's Instagram

Because she will come back for you. Rihanna put this picture up yesterday on Instagram. I follow her, so I saw it. But I didn’t quite understand it. I thought it was one of those funny pictures people make and everyone reposts it. But I started reading some of the comments (there were only about 12,000 at this point), and I saw that some people were in favor of her putting the picture up while others felt it was a {Read More}

Am I Too Sexy?

Am I too sexy??

This picture does not need any kind of explanation. It’s just one of those days. And it’s a legitimate question: am I too sexy? A resounding yes. What else could it be?

Would You Wear This See Through Dress?

See-Through Dress

You know I’m not a Fashionista, so sometimes I don’t know what is wearable and isn’t. Maybe then I just don’t understand fashion. Would you wear this? It’s a see through  dress and you can  really see through. But then again, maybe she didn’t know it was see-through, and maybe this is one of those fabrics that become transparent under light/camera flash. My guess is that the men would love it (they may not necessarily want their women to wear {Read More}

Tell Me, Do I Still Blog From The Heart?

Tell Me

When I put up the post asking where all the first-generation Nigerian bloggers went to, I think I got more information than I bargained for. And I loved it. A lot of people said that bloggers don’t blog from the heart anymore.  That’s really sad. When I started writing nine years ago on Nigerian websites like Nigerian Village Square and Nigerians In America, I really did not have a plan. I was just glad that I could share my thoughts {Read More}

But Why Is Oge Okoye Wearing A Blanket?

Oge Okoye in a blanket.

I generally like Oge Okoye. I can’t say she’s the best or worst of anything, but she’s okay to look at. I like her more when she does  a realistic role – whatever that may be – than when she does the runs girl/bad girl type of roles. I find those more annoying than entertaining. Here she is on a magazine cover in a blanket. I loathe these blankets. We never had one of these blankets in Nigeria because my {Read More}

Ladies & Gentlemen, How Do You Feel About Vaginal Sprays?

Summer's Eve Vaginal Spray in the fragrance of Island Splash

You’re probably wondering why the heck I’m asking men how they feel about vaginal sprays. Well, they go down there, that’s why I’m asking – not that I would know anything about that [insert straight face]. I started using vaginal sprays a little over a year ago, and I like them. For me, the decision to use a lot of things like lotion, fragrances, deodorant, hair spray, etc depends a lot on what it smells like. I’m a very big {Read More}

So … About This Anti Rape Condom

The Rape Axe - Anti Rape Condom

I don’t remember how I stumbled upon this bewilderment that is the Rape aXe = anti rape condom, but maybe I just need clarification from you guys – although chances are that you will be just as bewildered as I am. I think that the idea of an anti rape condom is a beautiful thing because I can only imagine how many women will be safe from having to go through that trauma. The anti rape condom was developed by {Read More}